Ouch. That's pretty tough. I hope that you either find another a girls name that you like much much more, or have a boy, because I wouldn't want you feeling sad once your little one is here.
Here is a link to my favourite name site for Swedish names, some of which I was quite surprised by like Cecilia www.behindthename.com/nmc/swe.php
I'm slightly ashamed to say that I like the really Norse names, like Brunhild and Gudrun, but I'm not sure if I'd ever use one. However we have used an Old English name for our son, and I think it is cool to have a name with history.
Of your names Anselm is excellently unusual, and I like Anouska too.