My middle name is Rowan and I am definitely a girl. I used to be embarassed about it and never mentioned it if I could help it, then I quite liked having an unusual name but by that time Rowan Atkinson had become really well known and every time I mention it now I get, 'Isn't that a boy's name?' - 'Er, obviously not...' I think a lot of boys have a girl's name .
If you don't mind that then I would say I have actually grown to like my name (if not to love). Having said that I have had a lot of comments from people who think it is a lovely name and with more unusual names you are always going to get people who make it obvious they don't like it just because they are expecting to hear one of the more popular names.