I have three dcs, oldest boy has his father's name for a middle name (regretfully), ds2 has no family names, dd1 has part of my name as her middle name and am expecting ds3. DH likes Parker, I like Aubrey (not that much), Orlando too. There are no names that I love though at all. Unlike the other 3 who's names I instantly thought were the ones. If we can't find another we love DS2's middle name for a first name. He has found having younger siblings the most tricky and feel it would be nice for them to be bonded by a name.... hoping that ds2 and ds3 would both like having a shared name as opposed to thinking we couldn't be bothered.