I am about to have our second soon. We don't know the sex of the baby (my gut says boy fwiw) but our top girl name is still the top name I had when I had my first daughter. For my daughter, we had the name narrowed down to 2 names, one of which was my dad's mothers name and this other name, but my daughter was unexpectedly born on Father's day and, as my dad never got to meet her because he died when I was a teen, we decided to go with his mothers name as it just felt more fitting, it also fits her personality so much better too. Well now we are back to making lists for girls and boys and I still adore this girl name after 3 years. However, my husband is having second thoughts about it as it's his bosses daughter's name and he says he'd be embarrassed to announce to her that he had copied her daughter's name. For context, her daughter is 9 years old, it's a small workplace and he has a good relationship with her. We don't see each other much outside of work but they do live close to us so we occasionally see her family out and about. The name in question is not super common, but not rare. It's fairly common in the UK and Australia (likely in the top 20-50 of names) but we currently live in the USA and it's not as commonly used here(definitely outside the top 100). I don't plan to live in the USA forever, hoping to move home in the next 2-5 years but my husband is likely to stay in this job until we leave. He seems so hesitant about using the name it's turning me off using it as I obviously want us both to love our kids name like we do with our first.