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Middle names for baby boy in honor of my grandpa?

36 replies

zeref · Yesterday 07:12

Our baby boy is going to be born in September. His name will be Rowan. My grandpa juat passed away a week ago, and i really want to put his name in there as the middle name. My grandpa's name was Jose, and im not sure if im a fan of that. He did always go by "Joe", so I was trying to think of a boys name that began with Joe, that isn't Joseph. Im also conflicted on just wanting to use Jose in general.

What do you think? Rowan Jose? Is there another "Joe" name that sounds good?

Also juat for context, I live in Ontario, Canada.

Thanks

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PersephoneParlormaid · Yesterday 07:16

What about Joel, or you could just use Joe as it is.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · Yesterday 07:34

Why not just use Joe. Rowan Joe sounds nice. I know Joe is normally short for something but I think it’s fine not to be

ThatIsABigSon · Yesterday 07:38

Joey/Joe/Joseph/Joel would all go with Rowan.

OnMarket · Yesterday 07:43

Josiah - historical king

BreakingBroken · Yesterday 08:17

Rowan Jose sounds fine.
Its incredibly rare to use both together anyway.

user1492757084 · Yesterday 09:30

Rowan Jose 9/10 is the best. Very good.
The se sound adds a different and attractive sound.

Rowan Joe 7/10 is very rhymey.
Rowan Joseph 9/10
Grandpa's surname could be an option.

maddiemookins16mum · Yesterday 09:32

Joel goes best.

neo6 · Yesterday 09:35

Rowan Joe sounds great

Myswweetchild · Yesterday 09:42

I met a Joe whose full name was Joachim.
But Rowan Joe is perfect ❤️

Peanutlicious · Yesterday 10:39

Ooh I like Rowan Josiah too, as ppl mentioned

ToadRage · Yesterday 10:54

Josiah, Jolyon. My cousin is called Joscelin, they call him Joss but Joe could work too. Thing is using a different name that could be Joe wouldn't be honoring your grandfather, I think you would nee to use Jose or Joe for that.

CamomileCream · Yesterday 11:20

Rowan Jesse?

StationJack · Yesterday 12:27

CamomileCream · Yesterday 11:20

Rowan Jesse?

The middle name is to honour the grandfather. There's no connection with Jose or Joe, other than Jesse was a forefather of Jesus' father, Joseph.

plasticplate · Yesterday 12:54

I think honour names should be the actual name or nickname they were known by so either Jose or Joe either of which is fine.

damemaggiescurledupperlip · Yesterday 12:56

Jonah? Jonathan?

but Joe is good in its own

Sunshineandgrapefruit · Yesterday 12:56

Joe or Jose bothe fine as the were his actual name whether given or just what he was called. Anything else then it's not really honouring him, it's just another name you like better.

damemaggiescurledupperlip · Yesterday 12:57

What was grandad’s surname? Would it make a good moniker?

StationJack · Yesterday 12:59

StationJack · Yesterday 12:27

The middle name is to honour the grandfather. There's no connection with Jose or Joe, other than Jesse was a forefather of Jesus' father, Joseph.

Joel, Jonathan and Jonah aren't connected to Jose/Joe either. You might as well suggest Samuel or Solomon.

Rowan Joe or Rowan Jose is fine, whichever you like best.
Joseph would be OK but like pp, the name needs to be the name of the person it's honouring.

Mumoftwoteenagers · Yesterday 13:07

plasticplate · Yesterday 12:54

I think honour names should be the actual name or nickname they were known by so either Jose or Joe either of which is fine.

I agree.

Plus both Joe and Jose are nice unobjectionable names. So rejecting them seems wrong somehow.

If he had been called “Snozcumber” then maybe!

User6761 · Yesterday 13:10

plasticplate · Yesterday 12:54

I think honour names should be the actual name or nickname they were known by so either Jose or Joe either of which is fine.

Agree, if it's to honour someone then surely it has to be their name (either their legal name or a name they used). Both Jose and Joe are fine.

But given your Grandpa has sadly died, he won't be aware of what name is chosen and would probably want you to choose whatever name you want for your baby and not be constrained by his name if there's another you prefer?

Lomonald · Yesterday 13:15

I would use Jose or Joe don't play about with it, middle names are often used to honour relatives, they don't have to flow imo. One of my cousins Dd has a diminutive of our grans name as a middle and it is lovely.

remembranceofthingspast · Yesterday 13:26

I've only known Rowan as a girl's name

StationJack · Yesterday 13:34

@remembranceofthingspast , Rowan Williams, Rowan Atkinson, Rowan & Martin's Laugh-In, Baby name explorer - Rowan.

It's unisex but mainly used for boys, and it's in the top 50 names for boys in England and Wales.

CurlewKate · Yesterday 13:35

I think Rowan Joe sounds good.

User6761 · Yesterday 13:43

remembranceofthingspast · Yesterday 13:26

I've only known Rowan as a girl's name

Rowan is predominantly given to boys in England, whereas in Scotland I think it's more of an even split. (Although in both countries I only personally know female Rowans). No idea in Canada where OP is.