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Joshua, Toby, Alexander or Rowan?

78 replies

Summersuncocktails · 01/05/2026 20:34

Little boy due in a few weeks time

We are soooooo struggling with boy names

What would you choose?

Joshua
Toby
Alexander (alex)
Rowan

Any other suggestions welcome 🙏

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Reevester · 01/05/2026 20:35

Alex or Rowan are fabulous choices and congratulations to you both!

Otterseatpuffinsdontthey · 01/05/2026 20:36

Alexander - classic. No abbreviations.

BashfulClam · 01/05/2026 20:39

Alexander, Alex or Xander are great.

Clockbook · 01/05/2026 20:41

Rowan is my favourite. But it is extremely popular at the moment. It wouldn’t stop me using it but I’m not sure how you feel about having a very of-the-moment name.

Second a tie between Joshua and Alexander. Both classic and lovely.

I don’t dislike Toby but it isn’t as good as the other 3.

Calliopespa · 01/05/2026 20:51

Love Toby and Alexander.

Edictfromno10 · 01/05/2026 20:52

Joshua is lovely!

Bunnyofhope · 01/05/2026 20:52

Joshua or Rowan for me. Toby, I don't like at all.

Sunisgettinganewhaton · 01/05/2026 20:53

My ds is Roan. Always think the Rowan spelling is for a girl.

Norastroud · 01/05/2026 20:53

I’d pick Alexander, really like Alex too. Also like Joshua & Tobias if that’s an option?

twilightermummy · 01/05/2026 20:54

Alexander (great name)
Toby
Joshua
Rowan

Thewalrusandthecarpenter · 01/05/2026 20:54

Definitely Alexander!

mynameiscalypso · 01/05/2026 20:56

We had your first three names on our shortlist. We waited until DS was born and then decided which one suited him best.

sunnybluesky75 · 01/05/2026 21:03

Alexander- great name but I prefer Xander as a shortened version.

Rowan - only ones I know are 26 and 19

Joshua- dated

Toby - really dislike, reminds me of a Toby Jug

moomooitus · 01/05/2026 21:05

I absolutely love all of them (sorry no help!).

NamingNoNames · 01/05/2026 21:05

They're all nice. What do they sound like with your surname?
I think I'd pick Toby.

Roan is a colour and rhymes with moan.

Peanutlicious · 01/05/2026 21:15

Rowan

Firebird83 · 01/05/2026 22:13

Definitely Alexander!

KeeleyJ · 01/05/2026 22:13

Alexander or Tobias 😍

KeeleyJ · 01/05/2026 22:16

I don't like Joshua - something slimey sounding to my ears, like that slimey feeling you get when seaweed wraps round your ankle when your swimming in the sea.

DelilahSpade · 01/05/2026 22:16

Sunisgettinganewhaton · 01/05/2026 20:53

My ds is Roan. Always think the Rowan spelling is for a girl.

My DS is Roan also 🩵

Viviennemary · 01/05/2026 22:17

Joshua is the best by miles. Alexander is fine. Rowan is a girl's name. Toby is dire.

minisago · 01/05/2026 22:23

Joshua. I’m biased though because I have one. And he really suits it, weird isn’t it?

Specialneedsnightmare · 01/05/2026 22:23

Alexander! But Alex for short not Xander.

user2848502016 · 01/05/2026 22:23

Rowan or Alexander (Rowan I really like and Alex is a classic safe choice)

Not as keen on the others but they’re not awful

Giraffehaver · 01/05/2026 22:26

Rowan by quite a lot

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