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Zander or Zachary

35 replies

Eloise1995 · 24/10/2025 14:21

Which name do you like the best out of Zander & Zachary? + what reason do you dislike the other more? Struggling to come to a final decision for my son.

Thanks.

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rubyslippers · 24/10/2025 14:22

Xander as a NN for Alexander

Sosigrole · 24/10/2025 14:22

Xander

ChersHeart · 24/10/2025 14:24

Zachary because Zander is a fish.

ImFineItsAllFine · 24/10/2025 14:24

Zachary is lovely and was on our boys names list.

I've only ever seen the Xander spelling and tbh I'm not a massive fan of it anyway. It was very overused a few years back.

Lemonadepie · 24/10/2025 15:43

Xander

ShesTheAlbatross · 24/10/2025 15:50

I would assume Zander was a misspelling. But that may be my own ignorance about it being a name in its own right.

Idontknowhatnametochoose · 24/10/2025 15:55

Definitely Zachary. Don't like the look or sound of Zander at all. Alexander would be better.

TallulahBetty · 24/10/2025 15:56

Zander is not a name. Xander is.

Frankiebaby123 · 24/10/2025 15:56

Neither

17caterpillars1mouse · 24/10/2025 15:59

I prefer Zachary. Zander / Xander seems incomplete to me

BarnacleBeasley · 24/10/2025 16:01

I prefer Zachary as I have a bias towards 'real' names and ones which can be shortened or adapted rather than already being the shortening.

CarriMarie · 24/10/2025 16:05

Zachary.

Spidey66 · 24/10/2025 16:08

Zachary, with Zach as a nn. I don't mind Xander as a nn for Alexander, but not Zander as it is.

ThePerfectTimeToPanic · 24/10/2025 16:09

I prefer Zachary. I like how it sounds and how it looks written down, also like it shortened to Zach.

If I wanted to use the name Zander, I’d call the baby Alexander and use Xander.

Moreteaandchocolate · 24/10/2025 16:28

Love Zachary! And especially Zac for short.

Zander is nice as short for Alexander.

Gizzagizza · 24/10/2025 17:13

I like Xander with an X - I also like Zachary.

DemonsandMosquitoes · 24/10/2025 17:15

Zachary.

Natsku · 24/10/2025 17:19

Not sure about Zander, how about Trout?

ChersHeart · 24/10/2025 17:20

Pike or Pilchard?

RuthW · 24/10/2025 18:20

Xander

JillyGiraffe · 24/10/2025 20:11

Definitely Zachary. Or Alexander?

Justlikethattherearefive · 24/10/2025 20:16

Zachary is lovely. I only know of Xander and prefer it as a nickname for Alexander which is also lovely.

Go with your gut. The name needs to feel right for you.

tragichero · 24/10/2025 20:29

I would prefer Zachariah to Zachary. I think the ending has a nicer sound, and for some reason it seems more like the "proper" version. (I know that doesn't really mean much).

Not that keen on Zander.

Zachary (or Zachariah) can be shortened too, whereas Zander can't.

Alexandrine · 24/10/2025 20:29

Zachary is nice. Xander is also lovely but Zander will spend too much of his time saying “Xander with a Z” (as since Buffy made it the fashionable/trendy nickname for timeless Alexander, it’s become much more widely used and most people will automatically use the Xander spelling).

StrumpersPlunkett · 24/10/2025 20:32

I have a Xander but he was christened Alexander, we have always called him Xander.

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