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Narrowing down boy/girl top two

39 replies

MamaLoLo1 · 02/10/2025 21:29

We don't know the gender and I'm struggling with the lack of direction for both boy and girl names so I'd welcome any help in narrowing down some frontrunners!

For a boy:
Rudy
Lucien
Jesse

For a girl:
Sylvie
Valerie
Nancy

Would love to hear other similar names that we might have overlooked too

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Lemonadepie · 03/10/2025 05:23

Jesse is very feminine especially if shortened to Jess. I know so many female Jessies / Jessica’s

I like Lucien best or how about Quentin or Reuben?

For a girl I like Sylvie best.

Cinnamonbunn · 03/10/2025 07:42

I love Jesse, in fact we’ve chosen it for our little boy due in a couple of weeks.
MN really made me have a wobble about the name a few months back for being too feminine. But when I posed it to family and friends/colleagues alongside more traditional boys names, they all preferred Jesse. No one made the association with the Scottish insult.

I love Sylvie but some other suggestions:

Celeste
Amelie
Elodie
Estelle
Colette
Genevieve
Daphne
Delphine
Camille

Elias
Julian
Adrian
Rowan
Reuben
Silas
Isaiah
Micah
Caleb

Mumofgirls2017 · 03/10/2025 07:52

Rudy and Nancy

user2848502016 · 03/10/2025 08:22

I don’t really like any of your boys names sorry, Lucien at a push

For a girl I like them all but Sylvie best

Gruffporcupine · 03/10/2025 08:26

Lucien is really cool and unusual. And options to shorten, like Luc (soft or hard C)

I love Nancy. So cute

Sparklesandspandexgallore · 03/10/2025 08:44

Jesse and Valerie.

Lemonadepie · 03/10/2025 08:55

Jesse is a derogatory term in Scotland

HugoYorway · 03/10/2025 08:58

Jesse - big jesse, Jessica
Lucien- Lucy

Valerie- Val. Just No.
Sylvie - Lipsyl, really don't like the 'ylv' bit

UninitendedShark · 03/10/2025 12:54

Lucien and Sylvie (Nancy close second)

IfHeWantedToHeWould · 03/10/2025 15:01

I hate the name Valerie, and Val is awful. I just don’t like the sound of it and would hate to be named it. Out of the three Sylvie is the best and Jesse.

MamaLoLo1 · 03/10/2025 17:58

PickledElectricity · 02/10/2025 23:34

Might I suggest Robin for a boy?

We have one 😆

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fairycupcakes · 03/10/2025 20:06

I think Sylvie is so lovely!

Others you may like:

Sadie
Daphne
Edith
Iris
Manon
Cecilia
Lucia
Camille
Sybil
Lilian
Vivienne
Juliet

Lucien out of your boy names!

Some others you may like:

Adrian
Julien/Julian
Max/Maximus
Cassius
Sebastian
Matteo
Pascal
Dylan
Otto
Hugo
Otis

mathanxiety · 04/10/2025 23:59

Rudy and Nancy

Namethoughtsplease · 05/10/2025 12:10

How about Cillian for a boy? Etta for a girl? I might totally have missed your vibe on names but they came to mind so thought would suggest

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