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Love ‘Beau’ for a boy but what if he’s not handsome?

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Lincolnlemons · 16/08/2025 23:01

I’m pregnant with a baby boy and love the name Beau, feels chic without being pretentious. My only worry is that what if DS doesn’t grow up to be conventionally handsome? Feels like a gamble and possibly an opening for bullies when he’s in school? Am I being ridiculous?

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Hazelmaybe · 18/08/2025 19:21

Bodhi? Can shorten to Bo? Quite cool

HugoYorway · 18/08/2025 19:21

Beau for a girl is awful, and jolie laide isn't really a compliment.

Limonades · 18/08/2025 22:57

Horsie · 17/08/2025 20:57

I don't like the name, because it looks like short for "Beautiful." Yes, I know that "beau" is the French for "handsome," but we're not French and it looks as if his full name is Beautiful. Can't imagine how much teasing boys named Beau must get, it's such a feminine name.

It’s the most masculine name there is - it’s literally the male form of Belle.

Horsie · 19/08/2025 02:45

Limonades · 18/08/2025 22:57

It’s the most masculine name there is - it’s literally the male form of Belle.

I KNOW. But as I've said multiple times, it looks like the first half of Beautiful. It LOOKS feminine. And when I hear it, I see that feminine-looking spelling. Plus it sounds like Bow, a feminine thing. I really hate it as a name.

Mochudubh · 19/08/2025 07:53

PersephonePomegranate · 17/08/2025 21:32

Sorry, I dont think it sounds chic at all. Reminds of Dynasty and shite, dramatic American TV straight out of the 80s.

Wasn't there a character called Bliss? One of Blake and Alexis's kids that popped up several series in, that no-one had ever mentioned but had been "travelling in Europe" or something for the last 5 years.

She was a wispy blonde as I recall. Even as a teen I remember thinking what if she'd grown up to be built like a brick shithouse with a face like a bag of spanners?

The thought stuck with me and my DC have unremarkable names and turned out just fine. I think there were more Laceys and Chelseas at their school than, say, James and Katie so names parents think are original at birth can be quite common by the time they start school.

HugoYorway · 19/08/2025 15:32

Bliss was Jason and Sable Colby's daughter.

chilliheeler123 · 19/08/2025 15:43

‘Chic’…😅

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