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Oscar, Joseph or Casper?

33 replies

JED1990 · 15/05/2025 14:55

Help! Really struggling with names for new baby boy…currently he is Oscar which we both love but somehow it just doesn’t feel like him?! I find myself not referring to him as Oscar… with DD her name just felt like her straight away. We have appointment to register him on Monday and feeling the pressure. Suggestions also welcome but has to be 1 or 2 syllables as we have a long last name so anything more is a mouthful!

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cordelia16 · 15/05/2025 15:28

I voted for Joseph, but I also really like Oscar. For me, it would depend on how each names sounds with the surname.

MrsOctavia · 15/05/2025 16:36

Jasper

JED1990 · 15/05/2025 16:52

@MrsOctavia i love Jasper but limited nickname options maybe? I like Cass for Casper

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PurpleReindeer2 · 15/05/2025 16:53

Joseph as it has a lovely nn Joe that all his mates will use and sounds great as a grown up name.

MrsOctavia · 15/05/2025 16:56

JED1990 · 15/05/2025 16:52

@MrsOctavia i love Jasper but limited nickname options maybe? I like Cass for Casper

Me too. Cass would be nice

Surroundedbyfools · 15/05/2025 16:58

Joseph ! I wanted to call my youngest Joseph but my husband didn’t like it

ShillyShallySherbet · 15/05/2025 16:58

Joseph

Moveoverdarlin · 15/05/2025 16:59

I think Joe is the world’s most boring name and that would be my worry with Joseph. Casper or Oscar get my vote.

BootballJoy · 15/05/2025 17:03

I prefer the spelling Caspar but either way it's a great name!

Topseyt123 · 15/05/2025 17:04

I really like Oscar. I'd be OK with Oz or Ozzy as shortenings too. 😃

Joseph maybe a fairly close second.

JED1990 · 15/05/2025 17:07

Thanks everyone! Boys names have been such a struggle for me

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Moreteaandchocolate · 15/05/2025 18:48

I love Joseph and he can be Joey when he’s little and Joe when he’s older if he likes 😊

Oscar is gorgeous too.

Casper is quite nice but I’m not too keen on Cass for short, it feels a bit feminine maybe?

Watellz · 15/05/2025 18:51

Joseph is a great name but enviably becomes Joe which is a good name too.

JED1990 · 15/05/2025 19:50

Moreteaandchocolate · 15/05/2025 18:48

I love Joseph and he can be Joey when he’s little and Joe when he’s older if he likes 😊

Oscar is gorgeous too.

Casper is quite nice but I’m not too keen on Cass for short, it feels a bit feminine maybe?

Edited

I love Joey too ❤️

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dontcomeatme · 15/05/2025 19:52

I had this issue with second DC, I found myself referring to them as the baby instead of their name, even though I LOVE his name. I started purposely using it more around him and with others and it now feels perfect, so pleased I stuck with it!

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 15/05/2025 20:05

Cassius?

Norastroud · 15/05/2025 20:09

I love Oscar & Joseph - both great names. Could you use one as a middle name?

WtafIsThat · 15/05/2025 20:13

I know so many Oscars! There are about 6 in my DCs year and my friends have 3.

JED1990 · 15/05/2025 21:34

dontcomeatme · 15/05/2025 19:52

I had this issue with second DC, I found myself referring to them as the baby instead of their name, even though I LOVE his name. I started purposely using it more around him and with others and it now feels perfect, so pleased I stuck with it!

This is reassuring thank you! I think I just expected that I would “know” when I saw him (as promised by lots of people) and I definitely didn’t / don’t, particularly not after a long and difficult delivery…

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Fishneedscycle · 15/05/2025 21:35

Jago or Hugo

JED1990 · 15/05/2025 21:37

WtafIsThat · 15/05/2025 20:13

I know so many Oscars! There are about 6 in my DCs year and my friends have 3.

interesting - I obviously know it’s popular but I only know one! I think this is luck of the draw to an extent - have a friend who has an Isla who is one of two in a large primary school but then goes to a tap class with 9 girls and is one of 3! It is definitely a consideration though

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JED1990 · 15/05/2025 21:37

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 15/05/2025 20:05

Cassius?

I really like this but hubby vetoed 😢

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appleandstrawberry · 15/05/2025 21:42

Joseph

GiddyCrab · 15/05/2025 21:46

Joseph.
Cass is very feminine.
What about
Arlo
Oliver
Tobias
Nathaniel (Nate)
Edison
Oakley
Rowan
Jasper
Logan

ohreallywhatnow · 15/05/2025 21:53

Definitely Jasper. A Jasper I know has loads of nicknames:
Jaspy
Jaz
J
Jasperuno!