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Hector or Edmund?

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Tessa23 · 14/05/2025 00:00

Hector or Edmund? Thoughts appreciated! neither are my top 5 but they are where my DH and I sort of cross over …

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pickedupontheway · 21/05/2025 18:28

Desmond

MerryPortas · 25/05/2025 22:59

Hector.

Edmund gives me Blackadder vibes

user1492757084 · 26/05/2025 06:09

I love both Hector and Edmund.
Edmund 10, Hector 9.

I also love Cecil, Charles, St.John and Clement.

You might like ..
Cedric
Columbus
Augustin
Inigo

Watch - Hunt for the Wilderpeople. There is a sweet Hector.

FluffykinsTheFerociousFeralFelineFury · 16/06/2025 02:26

Pemba · 14/05/2025 14:01

St John, Cecil and Horatio? Seriously?? Especially St John (pronounced sinjin I presume?) You just can't name the poor child that! Is your husband what they used to refer to as a Young Fogey? Or an Old one, for that matter? Is he a friend of Jacob Rees Mogg?

Agree with pps, you should be the one to choose. I like Edmund, makes me think of knights in armour. It's actually nicer than Edward. Hector, nooo. It's just harsh, makes me think of the old kid's TV show Hector's House (Hector was a dog I think), then as pps mentioned, the verb 'to Hector' which is negative.

I think maybe he is Jacob Rees Mogg.

Devianinc · 16/06/2025 02:49

Neither, horrible names and kind of mean to give these horrific names to your off spring. Bad nasty names

Nicebrightday · 16/06/2025 03:02

I like Hector after the hero, but then think of the verb and it spoils it a bit.

Edmund seems a bit wet. Edward is better imho. I like some of the shortened forms, Ned in particular. Ed is nice too, but I dislike Eddie.

Nothing wrong with John. Could you persuade DH to leave off the St bit (and pronounce it properly)?

tygertygers · 16/06/2025 03:48

Hector! I've never even heard of Hector's House, I am confident none of his peers will have.

MissedItByThisMuch · 16/06/2025 04:44

Really like Hector. Edmund is ok, my least favourite of the Ed- names. I like all your names, they’re safe relatively well used classics. DH’s rather - er - marmite but I love Clement and Horatio from his list.

Reddelilah · 16/06/2025 07:59

The verb ‘to hector’ is just not nice…!

Imisscoffee2021 · 16/06/2025 08:00

Hector is lovely, but tricky with nicknames, I love Edmund and Ted is a cute nickname :)

Reddelilah · 16/06/2025 13:04

Imisscoffee2021 · 16/06/2025 08:00

Hector is lovely, but tricky with nicknames, I love Edmund and Ted is a cute nickname :)

Ted as in Tedmund 🤔😂?

I would think that Ed is most likely shortening!

Imisscoffee2021 · 16/06/2025 13:21

Reddelilah · 16/06/2025 13:04

Ted as in Tedmund 🤔😂?

I would think that Ed is most likely shortening!

It is, but I just like the less obvious but as established diminutive Ted for Edward and Edmund more than Ed so said that one :)

MinnieMountain · 16/06/2025 13:29

That’s a strong reaction to names @Devianinc . Did you get bullied by boys of those names?

ivyleafgeranium · 16/06/2025 13:32

Next door neighbour has a dog called Hector. It’s such a strong association now that it would feel like calling a baby Biscuit or Bingo.

FluffykinsTheFerociousFeralFelineFury · 16/06/2025 13:38

ivyleafgeranium · 16/06/2025 13:32

Next door neighbour has a dog called Hector. It’s such a strong association now that it would feel like calling a baby Biscuit or Bingo.

There should be a law against dogs having people names, or vice versa.

MinnieMountain · 16/06/2025 15:48

FluffykinsTheFerociousFeralFelineFury · 16/06/2025 13:38

There should be a law against dogs having people names, or vice versa.

Agreed. DH’s aunt is British but lives in Norway. Her vet thought she was weird for giving her dog a human name.

GingerFox2021 · 19/01/2026 09:33

I like both a lot!!
What name did you choose in the end @Tessa23 ?

Calliopespa · 19/01/2026 12:09

I know some lovely Hectors, and I like the very old English names like Edmund and Alfred.

Can I suggest Harold as a middle ground between the two - Harry for short? Its one of my favourite boy names at present. Really underused.

Calliopespa · 19/01/2026 12:11

Reddelilah · 16/06/2025 13:04

Ted as in Tedmund 🤔😂?

I would think that Ed is most likely shortening!

Ted is a classic short form for Edward, so not a huge stretch for Edmund.

user1492757084 · 19/01/2026 12:13

Both fine names.

Noideawhatiam · 19/01/2026 12:17

I much prefer Edmund.
I know a baby Cedric which has really grown on me.
Other suggestions Laurence or Douglas.

CrotchetyQuaver · 19/01/2026 12:22

Edmund wins for me, we have a dog called Hector
or Edwin? Ed, Ted kind of diminutives if needed which I think are far better than Hec or Heccy

Calliopespa · 19/01/2026 12:23

Tessa23 · 14/05/2025 10:24

well I favour : james, Charles, Benedict, Sebastian, jasper.
dh favours: St John, clement, Cecil, Hector. Horatio

I know I’m right. But that’s marriage…

I love Benedict, and like to see Charles being used in lieu of the ever more ubiquitous Charlie. James is great, though unexciting: I think Benedict James is a lovely combination.

I'm afraid I'm with your DH on Jasper and Sebastian. I used to like Sebastian when it was a good old Catholic name (such as the Flytes in Brideshead) and wasn't all that often heard. But it has undergone a huge vibe shift in the last 20 years or so, I think probably after that Cruel Intentions movie, then maybe the driver Sebastian Vettel. I hear it being screeched in supermarkets, malls and carparks everywhere and I just don't think it is the name it once was,

Jasper always sounds "MC but trying to be UC" to me. It's the kind of Fulham/ red trousers of names.

I rather like both Hector and Horatio from DH's list, though a Cecil can only ever be a total drip, so I'm saying neither of you wins hands down.

CrotchetyQuaver · 19/01/2026 12:26

FluffykinsTheFerociousFeralFelineFury · 16/06/2025 13:38

There should be a law against dogs having people names, or vice versa.

Did you never see the kids programme about a dog and his kennel called Hector's House? It's very old, it was around over 50 years ago when I was little.

Hector is considered more of a dogs name because of that childhood association for many people!

Calliopespa · 19/01/2026 12:30

Just noticed this is a zombie thread - which is always awkward with names once the child is born ...😬

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