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Garri for a girl?

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Sosige · 03/05/2024 23:39

My late dad was called Gary. I'd love to honour him by naming our DD Garri, or do you think it's better spelt Gari? Middle name will be Anne.
Thanks in advance

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TinDogTavern · 04/05/2024 14:44

@NeverHeardOfSuchTosh

An ecstasy pill. After Liverpool footballer Gary Ablett (sp?) = tablet.

"Anyone got any Garies?"

checkedshirts · 04/05/2024 14:50

@TinDogTavern @NeverHeardOfSuchTosh

More commonly anus here as in 'his Gary's going' - akin to squeaky bum time.

It's short for Gary Glitter - Shitter. Biscuit <- anus not biscuit Grin

Vastlyoverrated · 04/05/2024 15:05

Priti's surname could have been changed to Brown, what's your point? Priti Brown wouldn't have been odd either! If you can get all the way to cabinet with a supposedly Mumsnet-unacceptable name, then it's Mumsnet that is problematic, not the names...

And Garri or Hanna or even Jaime (I have a lovely colleague called Jaime) are all fine names.

buttnut · 04/05/2024 15:44

I like Garnet! It’s giving Jacqueline Wilson

penjil · 04/05/2024 16:15

Garri for a girl?

Just nope.

She will sound like she is trans or something.

therealcookiemonster · 04/05/2024 16:17

that is criminally bad

how about gauri which is bengali for fair

Lwrenn · 04/05/2024 16:19

Gary's was slang for ecstasy when I was a teenager. I wonder if it's still used?

I also knew a Gari, lovely lad, awful hygiene.

MrsCarson · 04/05/2024 17:13

I used to work with a woman called Gary, she didn't change the spelling to Gari.
If you love Gary, just use it. At least there won't be half a dozen of them in your childs class.

yousexybugger · 04/05/2024 17:20

Vastlyoverrated · 04/05/2024 14:04

Whenever anyone is banging on about a name being unacceptable on Mumsnet, I just imagine if someone had suggested 'Priti' as a name 10 years ago, everyone would have laughed/mocked/said it wasn't suitable for a lawyer or a judge or a cabinet minister...

Great name, shit cabinet minister

user1492757084 · 06/05/2024 06:06

Why not use a more attractive name but use your father's initials. G. ?Second initial

Georgia
Genevieve
Gretal
Giselle
Gabrielle

PieFaces · 06/05/2024 06:15

Gari might be passable?

what about Geraldine

PieFaces · 06/05/2024 06:21

What about a name with the same meaning as Gary?

Corin means spear bearer (Irish name)

BCBird · 06/05/2024 06:24

It's a no from.me

PieFaces · 06/05/2024 06:32

Carrie is similar

FriendlyNeighbourhoodAccountant · 06/05/2024 06:35

"Gary"

Garri for a girl?
PieFaces · 06/05/2024 06:39

or use some of the letters from Gary to get Georgia Gabriella (gabby)

Freysimo · 06/05/2024 06:56

Apparently Gari is a female name of American origin meaning Spear Rule. Alternatively it means thinly sliced pickled ginger, served with sushi.

Viviennemary · 06/05/2024 08:03

It's really silly.

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 06/05/2024 08:04

KnickerlessParsons · 03/05/2024 23:53

Middle name Baldi??

Thank you 😆

LlynTegid · 06/05/2024 08:06

Your child will have a lifetime of having to spell their name and/or unkind comments.

Perhaps your late father had a middle name for which there is an easy female equivalent.

ProfessorFJLewisThatsYouThatIs · 06/05/2024 14:40

Bigearringsbigsmile · 04/05/2024 08:39

Call her Anne with Gari as a middle name?
AnneGari?😡😡
🤣

I'm sorry but it is a terrible, ridiculous idea and I'm. Sure your lovely dad is looking down and shouting 'noooo!'

Let's just hope that OP's surname isn't Anderson - and, moreover, she's not actually in Australia Grin

ProfessorFJLewisThatsYouThatIs · 06/05/2024 14:51

Iwasafool · 04/05/2024 12:45

Why will i make her life difficult? It is a name, there are all sorts of names. I was named after my father, first and middle name, never caused me any trouble. Has caused a smile when at a formal do where they wanted to seat male-female-male and ended up with female-female-female but no one suffered trauma.

She will be remembered as herself, no one will be bothered in the slightest for more than 5 seconds.

I'm glad you managed to own it, but not everybody has the confidence to do so.

To be hyperbolic, suppose that your 3yo older sibling had been given complete free rein to choose a name for you, with the result that your official lifelong name (or at least until you were old enough to change it) was 'Poopypants'. Now, you might be the world's biggest extrovert and exploit it - get in there first ("Yes, I know it's a crap name!!!!") and figure that it was at least distinctive and nobody would ever forget it; but if you were a very introverted person - a child starting at school at one point - and you had to tell everybody your name, then assuring them that it was your actual name when they laughed (the other children) or told you not to be rude/silly (the adults). How do you think most people would feel at that?

Now I know that 'Garri' isn't as extreme as that, but how do you think a maybe shy, timid, introverted, lacking-in-confidence and/or self-conscious girl who had to constantly introduce herself with a name that is only really known as a boys' name - indeed one that isn't really used for boys anymore, so virtually all of the other people called (what sounds like) that exact name are male and over 40 - would feel every single time she met a new person?

Incidentally, how come you were named after your Dad? Did you not have a Mum, or another female relative, if they were determined not to give you your own individual name?

PrincessHoneysuckle · 06/05/2024 15:00

Makes me think of that episode of only fools and horses

fairlygoodmother · 06/05/2024 15:00

Gari would work as a nickname for Gabriella/Gabrielle.

bellatrixlestrangex · 09/05/2024 20:05

No, just no

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