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Name dilemma! HELP!

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namedilemma45 · 11/04/2024 17:49

Any of these good/bad/ugly
And why?

Scarlett
Sasha
Portia
Dulcie
Ottilie

I've got a week to decide. Help

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oldnorsesaga · 11/04/2024 17:52

I like Dulcie and Ottilie the best. Not keen on Sasha and Scarlett cause I see them more trendy and Portia is hard to wear with all Porsche jokes.
What about Romilly or Cecily?

FlyingPizzaMonkey · 11/04/2024 17:55

Sasha is nice.

Not keen on Scarlett, it’s so harsh sounding, and what does it get shortened to at school? Scar?

Ottilie sounds pretentious to my ears (not sure why), it’s also popular and faddy. Will date.

Not keen on Portia or Dulcie, again Portia sounds pretentious.

miniaturepixieonacid · 11/04/2024 18:09

Scarlett - not that keen personally but it's a good name - well established but not crazily popular, used by all demographics, no silly nicknames.
Sasha - like it. And you don't get many little ones nowadays.
Portia - really don't like this. It's how Americans pronounce Porsche and I can't get that out of my head when I say it.
Dulcie - really cute and I like it for a child. Not sure how it would be to be an adult called Dulcie.
Ottilie - quite like it. Trendy at the moment. I would have assumed an Ottilie had French heritage until a few years ago but not now; it's become popular.

I think I would choose Sasha.

KirstenBlest · 11/04/2024 18:24

Scarlett, Sasha - both nice
Portia - We had Portia on our list (family name).
Dulcie - Dull, see. don't like
Ottilie - otterley. don't like

InTheRainOnATrain · 11/04/2024 18:25

Sasha makes me think Russian and boy
Portia, Americans saying Porsche
Ottilie I love but it’s becoming really popular
Dulcie is nice and more unusual
Scarlett is lovely and despite being a well known name you actually don’t come across it much

WaltzingWaters · 11/04/2024 18:36

Ottilie

Moreteaandchocolate · 11/04/2024 18:38

Sasha is definitely my favourite - short, simple, pretty and a bit cool / edgy too.

Dulcie - pretty sounding, not overused. Possibly a bit twee but no more than many popular names at the moment.

Scarlett - I love it but I couldn’t pull it off personally! It sounds confident, sassy, but not sure it would work for everyone.

Portia - sorry I dislike this one - to me it sounds like someone trying to come up with a posh name and failing (just my opinion, sorry)

Ottilie - not too keen (a little pretentious sounding to me) but I much prefer it to Portia

namedilemma45 · 11/04/2024 20:45

Thanks for the input. I think I need some better name choices

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Mich8 · 11/04/2024 21:11

namedilemma45 · 11/04/2024 17:49

Any of these good/bad/ugly
And why?

Scarlett
Sasha
Portia
Dulcie
Ottilie

I've got a week to decide. Help

Here are my honest thoughts OP!

Scarlett - some avoid due to connotations of a scarlet woman. Wouldn’t bother me at all but I wouldn’t pick it as I think it’s a name “of its time” eg about 10-20 years ago it was popular, it feels to me.

Sasha - love it. Cool. A bit dated but not in a bad way, I don’t think. Also love Sacha for a boy.

Portia - nice. Elegant and different. Go for this or Sasha!

Dulcie - sounds like a nickname. What’s the full version - if there is one? Also a bit too sweet and girly for me which makes me wonder if your DD will grow into her name or not. My DD so would not have been a Dulcie. We actually changed her likely name when we saw her and realised she was quite spirited and not calm! Cute for a toddler but not so on a CV.

Ottilie - I don’t understand the hype as I can’t read it without reading otter at the start although a lovely name otherwise. Very popular due to an influencer naming her baby this if this bothers you. Pretty though.

Congratulations btw! Not long now!

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 11/04/2024 21:20

Eep, sorry OP I don’t really like the sound of any of them.

If pushed, I guess I’d pick Sasha even though I think of it as a nn. But trying to think of similar style or sounding names:
Juliet?
Verity?
Saskia?
Felicity?
Rosalind?
Celia?
Viola?
Cecily?

chocciebiscuits · 11/04/2024 21:58

Ottilie definitely 😍

Mumofgirls2017 · 11/04/2024 22:15

I’d pick ottilie. Scarlett is the only one I take real issue with as don’t like the ‘scar’ sound and think it’s a bit harsh sounding? Personal taste though!

MillyMollyMandy01 · 11/04/2024 22:33

Sasha is the best, but how about Stella?

miniaturepixieonacid · 11/04/2024 22:40

namedilemma45 · 11/04/2024 20:45

Thanks for the input. I think I need some better name choices

Not if you like the ones you have, you don't! It's your baby. And this is not a bad list.

But, if you want other ideas on similar lines:

Astrid, Alexis, Audrey, Bronte, Beatrix, Bethan, Carys, Cecilia, Cassia, Delphi, Daphne, Darcey, Evadne, Elina, Evelyn, Fearne, Fabia, Fenella, Georgia, Greta, Gabriella, Hazel, Hope, Halle, Ingrid, India, Imogen, Juliet, Joanna, Jocelyn, Keziah, Kathryn, Kiera, Leonie, Leah, Lois, Margot, Mabel, Meredith, Nancy, Noelle, Niamh, Odette, Opal, Ophelia, Ramona, Romilly, Robyn, Sorrell, Saskia, Sylvia, Tamara, Thalia, Tara, Verity, Vanessa, Violet, Willow, Wren, Wanda, Xanthe, Yvette, Zelda, Zara, Zillah

garlictwist · 11/04/2024 22:41

Ottilie is awful (sorry).

Dislike portia. The rest are ok.

SkaneTos · 11/04/2024 22:44

All the names on your list are beautiful!

Portia makes me think of Ellen DeGeneres' wife Portia de Rossi (I think her name used to be Amanda, but she changed it to Portia).

namedilemma45 · 11/04/2024 23:10

Does Otilia sound good to anyone?

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NotABeliever · 11/04/2024 23:15

Scarlett or Sasha are the only two nice names on your list.
Ottilie or Ottilia also a no.
There are so many beautiful girls names! How about Julia, Charlotte, Audrey, Eloise?

theduchessofspork · 12/04/2024 00:07

Alexandra or Saskia nn Sasha is great, Sasha on its own is a bit undistinguished, but nice enough

Portia - I like it, though I wouldn’t use it because the car jokes would get very old

Scarlett - like it but it’s had it’s day

Dulcie de leche No

Ottilie No, otters, potties

theduchessofspork · 12/04/2024 00:07

namedilemma45 · 11/04/2024 23:10

Does Otilia sound good to anyone?

No

namedilemma45 · 12/04/2024 01:33

@miniaturepixieonacid
Thank you. Some great options. Brontë has just become a front runner

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namedilemma45 · 12/04/2024 01:33

@theduchessofspork 😂
I appreciate the honesty

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Nicebloomers · 12/04/2024 09:28

Otillie is lovely. I want to like Dulcie but I just think Dulce de leche (entirely my issue though, don’t let me put you off)
Bronte is nice.

KirstenBlest · 12/04/2024 09:39

No to Bronte. Sounds too similar to brunt and brwnt (dirty in Welsh).

@Nicebloomers , not just you. It's like the name Carmel makes me think of caramel.

Moreteaandchocolate · 12/04/2024 09:39

namedilemma45 · 12/04/2024 01:33

@miniaturepixieonacid
Thank you. Some great options. Brontë has just become a front runner

Sorry I’m not too keen on Brontë or Ottilia. I still really like Sasha from your original list :)

Other ideas

Darcy
Saskia
Eden
Romy / Romilly
Rowan
Cassia
Sienna

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