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Brother to Max... Ari?

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Givemepickles · 13/02/2024 09:15

DH and I cannot find a boys' name we like. We only had Max as an option for DS1. We have a long surname so are set on max 2 syllables in the first name.

I like Ari but don't actually know any. Does it go with Max? Will we ever find it in toy shops and gift stores, when Max gets to choose something with his name on it will Ari always be left out?

How would you pronounce Ari? I know how I want it pronounced but don't know if that's the usual way!

Our other option is Charlie but I do not like Charles at all and don't think Charlie stands alone as a name.

Thoughts, ideas?

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WithASpider · 13/02/2024 11:20

James Patterson wrote a series of books where two of the main characters are Ari and Max. I'd probably assume you loved them! I really like the name and would pronounce it Ah-ree.

If you're introduced to someone as Ah-ree you're unlikely to automatically change it to 'Arry because it's rude.

If you decide to go another way though I have friends with 2 sons called Max and Leo. Charlie is great too as a stand alone name, just like Alfie or Freddie.

Givemepickles · 13/02/2024 11:21

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 13/02/2024 11:17

The letter R and then long ee is how it’s pronounced.
It’s a popular name in Israel and not so much ‘popular’ but more known in the States as a Hebrew name. I’m American, hence my reference to the States where I know a few guys called Ari (all Jewish friends).

Yes, that's how I pronounce it and love that pronunciation.

We aren't Jewish but I did see this is a Jewish name from Googling it. Not sure if that matters or not. I seem to like a lot of Jewish names like Ezra and Reuben as well.

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metsss · 13/02/2024 11:22

aquarimum · 13/02/2024 09:54

I work with an Ari (ah-ri) and he's amazing. He's also got a somewhat unusual surname.

I wonder if you work with my son Smile

metsss · 13/02/2024 11:24

We aren't Jewish but I did see this is a Jewish name from Googling it. Not sure if that matters or not. I seem to like a lot of Jewish names like Ezra and Reuben as well

It is also a diminutive of Adrianus in Holland.

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 13/02/2024 11:48

I mentioned it being a Jewish name only because the ones I know personally are from religious families in the States. But honestly, Hebrew names are so common. I think most people don’t realise that so many of our every day names are Hebrew in origin. My son has a Greek name, my daughter has a Hebrew name, my other son has a Scottish name.

Ari is a really nice name and if you love it, use it.

bloodyeffinnora · 13/02/2024 11:57

Max and Charlie definitely

TheOriginalEmu · 13/02/2024 12:01

Charlton as the full name for Charlie?
I much prefer Ari though, Asa is a similar
vibe?

AngelaBB · 13/02/2024 12:08

Really like Ari. Max and Ari sound great.

Givemepickles · 13/02/2024 12:18

Thanks everyone, it's nice to hear some people like Ari and do think it goes with Max :)

The more I think about it the more I can't see it being mispronounced more than the first time someone meets him. Since it's not pronounced Arry I can't see anyone would confuse it for that as we or he would say Ahhree. I worked with a girl called Mairead and she always introduced herself as "Mairead like parade" and I remembered ever since due to that so he could do similar. We also don't live anywhere near the east end of London so no idea why people would think we suddenly have an Eastenders accent but only for one word 😂

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Givemepickles · 13/02/2024 12:19

TheOriginalEmu · 13/02/2024 12:01

Charlton as the full name for Charlie?
I much prefer Ari though, Asa is a similar
vibe?

Is Asa "ace-ah" or "ass-ah"? Or neither??

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Pemba · 13/02/2024 12:23

I've only come across this name on girls, pronounced as 'Arry and short for Ariana or Ariella.

user1492757084 · 13/02/2024 12:25

Max and Charley goes well.
Others ..
Max and Harry
Max and Casper
Max and Christof
Max and Caleb
Max and Rufus

ZiggyZowie · 13/02/2024 12:33

Marvin

Milo

Murdo

TiaSeeya · 13/02/2024 12:35

How about Ace? I know one.

TheBirdintheCave · 13/02/2024 12:35

@Givemepickles It's 'ace-a'.

ZiggyZowie · 13/02/2024 12:36

Mason

Morgan

Maddox

Murphy

mnlkjpo24 · 13/02/2024 12:37

Ari (ah-ree) is a girl's name IMO.

Charlie is definitely a stand-alone name.

What about Harry?

TheOriginalEmu · 13/02/2024 13:32

Givemepickles · 13/02/2024 12:19

Is Asa "ace-ah" or "ass-ah"? Or neither??

ACE-uh. I really like it!

ScierraDoll · 13/02/2024 13:41

Why would you saddle a child with a name that you don't know how to pronounce?
Ari = 'arry (Harry)

Nicebloomers · 13/02/2024 13:49

Asher
Enzo
Arlo
Ben
Hugo
Isaac
Kai
Abel

Mumofgirls2017 · 13/02/2024 14:08

Instinctively I’d say Ari to rhyme with Harry- which may lead to some confusion. I
like Harry with Max actually. I am guessing further suggestions futile but…

leon
axel
ethan
jude
seth
kit
ralph
rupert
rio
josh
jake
leo
Rocco
george
arlo

peaceinourtime · 13/02/2024 14:28

Ari is a lovely name and will go with Max. Don’t worry about the ‘arry from those who can’t pronounce Harry with the H dropping; it’s not his name.

ForAquaBee · 13/02/2024 15:04

I adore the name Ari, however, unfortunately it sounds almost exactly like Anita. Anita & Max have serious connotations of the popular singer/song writer Drake. As you probably know, Drake’s inappropriate images have just been leaked onto the internet and I for one would not want to be associated with Drake’s willy.

aquarimum · 13/02/2024 16:18

metsss · 13/02/2024 11:22

I wonder if you work with my son Smile

Might do! Is he in a caring profession??

TheOriginalEmu · 13/02/2024 21:32

ForAquaBee · 13/02/2024 15:04

I adore the name Ari, however, unfortunately it sounds almost exactly like Anita. Anita & Max have serious connotations of the popular singer/song writer Drake. As you probably know, Drake’s inappropriate images have just been leaked onto the internet and I for one would not want to be associated with Drake’s willy.

what?
just….what?
in what way does Ari sound like Anita?

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