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Flora or Abigail or ?

33 replies

whattonamethatbaby · 03/03/2023 13:59

After being utterly convinced I was carrying a boy, it has just been confirmed that it is actually a girl Grin Whilst we were pretty set on a boy name, we are really struggling to agree on any girl names mainly because DH rejects them all...

Our top two names so far are Flora or Abigail (but I don't love Abi). Other names on our maybe list less are Isla, Olivia, Elizabeth, Charlotte and Eve.

Some of the names I like that DH has rejected are Maisie, Mabel, Clara and Martha.

Any thoughts on Flora / Abigail or any other suggestions are much appreciated!

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autumn1610 · 03/03/2023 14:18

I like flora it’s on my list too and if you both agree on it and she feels like a Flora when she arrives then go for it. I also have Elizabeth, Mabel and Martha. A selection of my other names (girls list is very long 😂)

Laurel
Erin
Edith
Martha
Noa
Mabel
Nora
Quinn
Marnie
Nancy
Everly
Winnie

FayCarew · 03/03/2023 14:27

Flora and Abigail are both lovely. Of the two, I prefer Flora.
Abigail could be Gail if you don't like Abi.

Isla, Olivia, Elizabeth, Charlotte and Eve are all nice enough, but Olivia, Isla and Evie have been overpopular for ages too the point of being dull.
Elizabeth and Charlotte are both safe, pleasant classics.

Out of Maisie, Mabel, Clara and Martha, I only like Martha. Maisie is a bit twee. Clara and Mabel sound frumpy.

Mercurial123 · 03/03/2023 14:36

Definitely, Flora, it's one of my favourite names.

whattonamethatbaby · 03/03/2023 14:37

Glad to hear the pro-Flora consensus. We are probably leaning there but just didn't feel quite as 'safe' as our other names. Lovely list autumn - we have similar tastes!

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SomethingAboutNothing · 03/03/2023 14:40

I really like Flora, met a very cute little Flora the other day!
If you don't like Abi I wouldn't go for Abigail.

Theoldwoman · 03/03/2023 14:41

Not a fan, sorry.

I do love Charlotte though.

Other favourites are:

Millicent
Lucille
Ella
Kate
Frances
Olive
Freda
Ada
Victoria
Laura
Celeste

MyOtherUsernameIsDave · 03/03/2023 14:42

I like Flora and Abigail.

Isla/Olivia/Eve have been absolutely done to death. The playground is full of Evie’s, it’s boring.

SorryForTheRant · 03/03/2023 14:44

Is it the spelling or sound of Abi you don't like?

I know an Abigail who has always been Abby because her parents didn't like Abi. Appreciate that is unhelpful if it's the sound you don't like though!

SorryForTheRant · 03/03/2023 14:45

She's also Abigail Elizabeth so similar vibe!

Bunnyishotandcross · 03/03/2023 14:46

How about Lurpak? Nearly as valuable at a Ruby or Jade nowadays!
Flora is a cheap substitute!

Lamelie · 03/03/2023 14:48

Arrietty, from the Borrowers came up on here recently, it’s lovely.
similar vibe to your chosen names:
Verity
Felicity
Evangeline
Congratulations!

FayCarew · 03/03/2023 14:54

@Bunnyishotandcross , Lurpak isn't a girl's name, it's far too masculine

whattonamethatbaby · 03/03/2023 15:00

Bunnyishotandcross · 03/03/2023 14:46

How about Lurpak? Nearly as valuable at a Ruby or Jade nowadays!
Flora is a cheap substitute!

Don’t say this, we’ve only just managed to convince ourselves the butter connection doesn’t matter Grin

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FayCarew · 03/03/2023 15:18

Flora isn't butter in any shape or form

Daisychained8 · 03/03/2023 15:34

I LOVE Flora. Flora reminds me of the saint, or the character from the Turn of the Screw, never the butter. Find it odd that it’s mentioned so often on here as it sounds like a non-issue to me!

FayCarew · 03/03/2023 15:46

Turn of the Screw or Cold Comfort Farm for me.

FayCarew · 03/03/2023 15:47

or Flora and Fauna, or Florabunda.

shoopshoopdedoo · 03/03/2023 17:13

Flora is nice. I’m not a fan of Abigail, though it’s perfectly OK too. Of your other names, I like Elizabeth, Charlotte and Eve. I really love Mabel and Martha - shame your husband isn’t on board!

whattonamethatbaby · 03/03/2023 17:20

shoopshoopdedoo · 03/03/2023 17:13

Flora is nice. I’m not a fan of Abigail, though it’s perfectly OK too. Of your other names, I like Elizabeth, Charlotte and Eve. I really love Mabel and Martha - shame your husband isn’t on board!

I know! He is convinced Mabel is old-fashioned and that she would be the only baby Mabel around, despite me showing him that it is in the top 100!

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midsomermurderess · 03/03/2023 17:26

I like Abigail but also don’t like Abbey/Abi. Flora would be ‘safe’ from a shortening point of view.

daisypond · 03/03/2023 17:30

Really like Flora.

user1492757084 · 04/03/2023 02:58

Flora is sweet.
Abigail will be called Abbie by her friends so don'tuse it.

Lila Elizabeth
Bridget Isla
Gabrielle Flora
Lola Abigail
Alanna Charlotte
Ellen Genevieve
Fleur Olivia
Lisa Abigail
Eliza Charlotte

Snugglemonkey · 04/03/2023 03:01

I definitely agree that Abigail should be avoided if you dislike Abi.

Flora is lovely!

Whattheladybird · 04/03/2023 03:41

I know a grown up Abigail who is an Ab, never anything else, and a 10 year old Abigail who has never been an Abbie/Abi/Abby. So you can do it.

JauntyRedShoes · 04/03/2023 04:50

Love Flora or Florence. Also like Connie, Nora or Erin.