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Please recommend a nickname or english name for Minji!!

134 replies

cinephilee · 31/12/2022 13:46

My English isn't very good, so please bear with me.

I’m Korean and my family moved to UK. My daughter is going to study at secondary school.

Her name is Minji, which is very common in Korea, but I am worried that she will be teased in English. I didn't even know the word "minge" existed.

Is it a problem if I change the spelling to Minzy? It's the same pronunciation in Korean.

Mia - heard it too much common
Gia - can struggle with how to pronounce it
Jia - it sounds like Chinese characters
Jiya - heard it's Indian name

She can name herself in English and if she wants, she can write her Korean name as it is. My daughter picked some English names, but most of them are celebrities or movie names.😂

I heard some names are class-oriented or race-oriented. So I want to narrow it down even if she choose. And I hope it's a name that can be used anywhere in the world.

Thank you.
Wish you all the best in the coming year.

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Ayeaken · 01/01/2023 00:51

Depends where you are in the UK, if Scotland, she'd definitley get 'Minge-y' from Minji.

Minzy or Zee are good.

Dillydollydingdong · 01/01/2023 00:55

Mitzi is quite good

ErrolTheDragon · 01/01/2023 01:03

pizzaHeart · 31/12/2022 21:45

I like Minzy or Minzi .
Minzi has more unusual feel, so maybe more cool and interesting.
Minzy sounds very British e.g Daisy, Maisy

Yes, I agree.
Either seems like a better transliteration than 'Minji' , which really is liable to be pronounced 'mingy' which means miserly and stingy.

Sockwomble · 01/01/2023 09:20

I like Minzi. I think an i at the end is cooler than a y. It also looks like a full name rather than a nickname.

olympicsrock · 01/01/2023 09:30

Minzi ( cooler than minzy) or Min

BMIwoes · 01/01/2023 09:40

If you are looking for a different name that works internationally I have definitely heard variations of Hannah/Hana all over the place. Likewise Amy/Ami. Both very well known names here in the UK with no weird associations.

BMIwoes · 01/01/2023 09:40

If you are looking for a different name that works internationally I have definitely heard variations of Hannah/Hana all over the place. Likewise Amy/Ami. Both very well known names here in the UK with no weird associations.

Peanutgurgle · 01/01/2023 09:45

I know a Mitzi. Very cool.

leftitabitlate22 · 01/01/2023 11:36

I think minzi is good, anyone who says to stick with Minji or min-jee does not have teenagers.

minipie · 01/01/2023 11:40

Minzi is great. No negative associations, easy to spell, and obvious how to pronounce it. Stick with that.

EatingWormsMichael · 01/01/2023 11:45

Minzy is a lovely name!

FurAndFeathers · 01/01/2023 11:46

CatJumperTwat · 31/12/2022 13:49

I'd go with Jia or Jiya. Are there many Chinese-speaking people at her new school? Is it even a bad thing if her name reminds them of Chinese characters?

I wouldn't discount Mia just because it's popular. Teens often just want to fit in!

Why are you asking about Chinese? Confused The OP is Korean

ohyouknowwhatshername · 01/01/2023 11:49

Mia would get my vote, especially if the aim is to fit in.

SmokeyPaprika · 01/01/2023 11:51

Mingey means stingey/ mean in Scots

cariadlet · 01/01/2023 12:20

Definitely Minzi or Minzy so that she keeps her Korean name and has an English written form that won't cause her any problems.

Please ignore those posters recommending Minnie.

Growing up, I hadn't heard of that as a name for female genitalia. Just because it wasn't used by my family or friends, didn't mean it didn't happen.

Some posters think that if they've only read about something on Mumsnet, it doesn't happen in real life.

Since becoming a teacher, I've come across countless families who use the term minnie because it isn't a crude or swear word and nor is it a "grown up" scientifically correct word so is seen as suitable for children.

FurAndFeathers · 01/01/2023 12:27

SmokeyPaprika · 01/01/2023 11:51

Mingey means stingey/ mean in Scots

Which is a niche language spoken in very small parts of Scotland.

I spent 15 years there and have never come across it. I doubt that’s a big concern for OP especially as she asked about English

Bernadinetta · 01/01/2023 12:35

FurAndFeathers · 01/01/2023 11:46

Why are you asking about Chinese? Confused The OP is Korean

Because in the OP, the OP wrote that Jia “sounds like Chinese characters”. Did you read the OP?

Lampzade · 01/01/2023 12:40

Minzi

FavouriteDogMug · 01/01/2023 12:42

I would change to Minzi, it avoids a potential problem and sounds the same in Korean.

GAH3 · 01/01/2023 12:57

My first thought was "MJ"

Minzi is also very cute 🙂

paintitallover · 01/01/2023 13:04

Mia, because I find they do actually want to fit in.

Soozikinzii · 01/01/2023 13:14

Mia is lovely ahd isn't very common up here in Wigan anyway ! or theres Mimi , Minzy or Mitzy are all nice . Perhaps she should make the final cut ?

ByTheGrace · 01/01/2023 13:16

There's a fair chance she'll get teased, teens are bloody cruel. I just asked DD (older) teen and she laughed and said erm ...no. Minnie got the same reaction, We do know a Mitzy, who isn't teased. Mingey also means mean, not sure why people think these insults are confined to select corners of the UK, we've relocated lots, and minge has always meant a slang word for vagina.

FurryDandelionSeekingMissile · 01/01/2023 13:31

paintitallover · 01/01/2023 13:04

Mia, because I find they do actually want to fit in.

Minzi would probably fit in just as well though. Very similar-looking to the name of a white British girl I used to know called Linzi (as an alternative spelling of Lindsey), though the syllable stress might be different.

Assuming the OP isn't moving to a very monocultural part of the UK, the kids will be used to people having names from outside the Western European tradition. As long as the name is easy for Brits to remember, say and spell, and doesn't have any obvious unwanted connotations in the local language (a friend of mine is eternally grateful her parents were alert to this when choosing a name from their own tradition for her, and didn't call her Gagandeep or Sukhdeep) then I don't think OP's DD should have to feel that her own name — re-spelt to avoid mispronunciation by foreigners — is a problem.

Purplemagnolias · 01/01/2023 14:01

Assuming the OP isn't moving to a very monocultural part of the UK, the kids will be used to people having names from outside the Western European tradition.

I agree. Please don't encourage your dd to 'give up' her Korean name and heritage. Don't call her Mia.

Min or Minzy are lovely names for a Korean girl