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Please recommend a nickname or english name for Minji!!

134 replies

cinephilee · 31/12/2022 13:46

My English isn't very good, so please bear with me.

I’m Korean and my family moved to UK. My daughter is going to study at secondary school.

Her name is Minji, which is very common in Korea, but I am worried that she will be teased in English. I didn't even know the word "minge" existed.

Is it a problem if I change the spelling to Minzy? It's the same pronunciation in Korean.

Mia - heard it too much common
Gia - can struggle with how to pronounce it
Jia - it sounds like Chinese characters
Jiya - heard it's Indian name

She can name herself in English and if she wants, she can write her Korean name as it is. My daughter picked some English names, but most of them are celebrities or movie names.😂

I heard some names are class-oriented or race-oriented. So I want to narrow it down even if she choose. And I hope it's a name that can be used anywhere in the world.

Thank you.
Wish you all the best in the coming year.

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whatausername · 31/12/2022 14:22

SkylightSkylight · 31/12/2022 14:10

I'd do what @ParbadosBeach said.

minzy is fine & the most logical option.

I'd definitely change it from her current spelling!!

This definitely seems the most sensible or Mia or Minnie as someone said (I've never heard irl anyone say minnie, only on Mumsnet tbh). Mia works especially well if your daughter is particularly shy and would like to fit in. Of course, I wouldn't encourage someone to always try to fit in but new country, new culture and new school? I think small things here and there to fit in would be worthwhile, again, if your daughter is shy.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 31/12/2022 14:23

If Minzy would be pronounced in almost the same way as Minji I would go with that. It’s quite a cool sounding name and I don’t think it matters that it’s not generally a name used in the UK, lots of children have names from other cultures which may not be familiar in UK culture and I don’t think it will be a problem.

Adultchildofelderlyparents · 31/12/2022 14:27

I'd go for Minnie or Mia, so that even when using a nickname her initial is still the same.

Sarahcoggles · 31/12/2022 14:28

KirstenBlest · 31/12/2022 14:06

I'd stick to Minji. If she says it as Min Jee maybe hyphenate the syllables, if that's an option.

I know people with names like Dick, Fanny, Pi (pee), Peter etc and it's just what they are called.

This is bad advice OP. @KirstenBlest do you have secondary school kids?

whatausername · 31/12/2022 14:29

whatausername · 31/12/2022 14:22

This definitely seems the most sensible or Mia or Minnie as someone said (I've never heard irl anyone say minnie, only on Mumsnet tbh). Mia works especially well if your daughter is particularly shy and would like to fit in. Of course, I wouldn't encourage someone to always try to fit in but new country, new culture and new school? I think small things here and there to fit in would be worthwhile, again, if your daughter is shy.

And before I look like some narrow-minded muppet about the Mia thing...I meant only if you rule out Minzy option. I was remembering how painfully shy I was as a child with an unusual name.

stairgates · 31/12/2022 14:33

Minzi for sure, its lovely. Minge would be tormented here.

Sleepthief · 31/12/2022 14:37

How about just Min?

ArnoldBee · 31/12/2022 14:42

At my son's school there is a Mais-ze which all the kids think is cool as it has a z in it so Minzy would be a good choice.

icefishing · 31/12/2022 14:48

I think Minzy would be a perfectly sensible choice.

JennyForeigner · 31/12/2022 14:50

Minnie is a lovely, traditional diminutive name for girls, but any of your options would be fine - or none! Naming culture in the UK is relaxed and I would be horrified if you encountered a problem.

Hope all goes well with the move and you enjoy living here.

ShaunaTheSheep · 31/12/2022 14:53

Minzy is lovely. Avoid Minnie for the reasons already given - it IS a common word for female genitalia.

KatKoot · 31/12/2022 14:54

Mindy is pretty & easy to say & spell & similar to Minji.

Epicstorm · 31/12/2022 15:06

Mina ?

scarecrow22 · 31/12/2022 15:13

Minty?

Stickytoff · 31/12/2022 15:17

Minnie Driver is a famous British actress. Minnie is a nice name.

HowDoWeDoThisPlease · 31/12/2022 15:18

I’d go for Mindy

declutteringmymind · 31/12/2022 15:20

I like the idea of Min-ji. Or Min Ji.

She can then choose her nicknames as she sees fit but doesn't erase her heritage and identity.

cunningartificer · 31/12/2022 15:21

I think Minzi would be great. Close to her original name, unusual and cute. If you keep the i I think it would be a more appealing spelling and avoid the 'mingy' associations of a y ending!

saraclara · 31/12/2022 15:39

Definitely Minzy. Your daughter's name is part of her identity. This way her name remains her name, which is much more psychologically healthy (given that she wouldn't have chosen to change it), and it's only the spelling that changes.

saraclara · 31/12/2022 15:39

Oh, yes. With the i. Minzi

mumda · 31/12/2022 15:44

Mini. Silent J.

shivawn · 31/12/2022 15:47

I work with a Minija and she often goes by Minnie.

harktheherold · 31/12/2022 16:01

Minnie is very cute

Purplemagnolias · 31/12/2022 18:01

I think Min Jee sounds fine.

I'd definitely keep her Korean name to reflect her heritage.

Bernadinetta · 31/12/2022 18:05

Minnie or Min is also slang for female genitalia in some places, as PPs have mentioned, the same as Minge.
I’d say Mia or Mimi.