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Tilly Kate?

82 replies

elm26 · 12/12/2022 13:01

My DH and I have settled on Tilly for our little girl.

My Nan and Grandad raised me and I miss them both dearly, my Nan's name was Cathleen however my Gramps called her "his Kate" so o was thinking of Tilly Kate as a nod to them both.

Do you think it goes?

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Marcipex · 12/12/2022 15:19

I like it; Kate somehow makes Tilly much more interesting.
I am not particularly keen on Matilda. I can’t think what else Tilly is ever short for.

I always thought Tilly was short for Millicent

user1494050295 · 12/12/2022 16:59

Matilda Katherine and then shorten. But would she be known as tilly Kate or just Tilly?

RoseBucket · 12/12/2022 17:04

I know a Tilly her actual name is Tallulah.

Whichwhatnow · 12/12/2022 17:04

Not sure I like them together - I'd probably go for Matilda Kate or Tilly Cathleen.

I don't agree at all that Tilly isn't appropriate for an adult woman. I know four adults called Tilly (I assume they're all Matilda on the BC but don't know - they've all always just been Tilly to me). One is a lawyer, one is a carpenter/woodworker, one is a very cool DJ and the fourth is a SAHM with two preschoolers. They all suit the name.

Cas112 · 12/12/2022 17:10

Tilly is cute but hard work to put them two names together

gaf · 12/12/2022 17:13

I love Kate as a middle name but Tilly is such a blah, nothing name. Too cutesy for an adult.

fairycupcakes · 12/12/2022 17:35

Whichwhatnow · 12/12/2022 17:04

Not sure I like them together - I'd probably go for Matilda Kate or Tilly Cathleen.

I don't agree at all that Tilly isn't appropriate for an adult woman. I know four adults called Tilly (I assume they're all Matilda on the BC but don't know - they've all always just been Tilly to me). One is a lawyer, one is a carpenter/woodworker, one is a very cool DJ and the fourth is a SAHM with two preschoolers. They all suit the name.

I agree with Matilda Kate or Tilly Cathleen!

Benjispruce4 · 12/12/2022 17:39

Kate over Tilly any day.

KirstenBlest · 12/12/2022 18:16

Kate doesn't flow very well with first names ending in y/ie. Tends to make me think of verbs like masticate, prevaricate etc

Daffodil21 · 12/12/2022 18:25

I knew a Natalie who everyone called Tilly

Kanaloa · 12/12/2022 18:26

I think it’s pretty. Really we don’t use middle names much in real life, so she’ll mostly be Tilly Lastname.

pimlicoanna · 12/12/2022 18:29

It makes me think of titillate

Pieceofpurplesky · 12/12/2022 18:29

I would go for Kitty (short for Cathleen). Or Tilly Cathleen

Mydogatemypurse · 12/12/2022 18:30

Matilda Kate is lovely.
Reenie?

CPL593H · 12/12/2022 18:32

Tilly was quite usual for girls called Matilda born c 1890s, even into adulthood. My Nans best friend was a Tilly, that era and I've come across others.

I think it's nice actually but would go with using the longer forms, of at least one of the names, to give her options later on.

elm26 · 13/12/2022 09:09

Thank you everyone.

We were settled on Tilly, I'm not keen on Matilda personally but we also have Aria. Is Aria Kate any better? Our surname is 2 syllables and ends in "der".

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SallyWD · 13/12/2022 10:14

I think Aria is better than Tilly but obviously it's down to personal preference.

Luana1 · 13/12/2022 10:43

Aria Kate is a lovely name. Tilly Kate doesn't really go together. As pp have said Matilda Kate is much better with the nickname Tilly.

SingingSands · 13/12/2022 11:04

Aria is lovely. Tilly is silly. Middles names can be whatever you like, for whatever reason. You don't go around in real life calling your child by their full name. It's lovely to have a family connection, or just use a name you've always liked. I barely remember that I have a middle name, it is never used.

VenusClapTrap · 13/12/2022 17:30

Aria Kate is far, far better. Elegant and grown up.

wishing3 · 13/12/2022 18:09

Matilda Kate sounds nicer IMO.

bevelino · 13/12/2022 18:14

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 12/12/2022 13:34

If you called her Matilda Cathleen that would give you better hollering material when you need to yell her full name when she commits teenage crimes eg. 'MATILDA CATHLEEN SMITH, IS THAT A PIERCING IN YOUR NOSE?'

😂😂😂

beachsandseaicecream · 13/12/2022 18:16

Agree that Tilly Kate sounds a bit like titillate.

What about Ottilie as a longer name with nickname Tilly?

BlueSuffragette · 13/12/2022 18:23

Matilda Kate sounds better than Aria Kate IMO.

maranella · 13/12/2022 18:27

Agree Tilly is awful, but then I can't stand cutesy nicknames as names. She will grow up to be a woman OP. Tilly might be cute for a 3-year-old, but for a 50-year-old?

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