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What is your favourite of these virtue names?

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Spookypig · 14/11/2022 13:32

Constance
Mercy
Faith
Hope
Joy

If you love any not on this list then feel free to say them too! I am really into virtue names recently, I seem to love the Puritan vibe! Anyone else? 😄

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Onedayatatime22 · 14/11/2022 15:06

I understand that you like the names but why would you want to saddle a young woman with a name like that in this day and age? Why not Obedience while you're at it?

I'll step out. Just don't get it.

Spookypig · 14/11/2022 15:08

I hear this a lot - about the pressure on a child. And one of my best friends is a VERY ungraceful Grace. Which I love about her, actually, I think part of what I love most about her is this fact (among many many other things)! I can also understand the Joy thing putting pressure on a child (obviously imagining a very grumpy Joy).

But I always wonder about people saying the name Mercy putting pressure on a child. Like it gives me this brilliant image of a Vlad the Impaler type child storming around the neighbourhood causing suffering and pain everywhere she goes and everyone’s like ‘Ha! I bet her parents feel stupid calling her Mercy now!’ 😂 Like what kind of person would you have to be for the name Mercy to be inappropriate for you? I’m a teacher and I don’t think I know any little girls ruthless and/or cruel enough to not suit the name Mercy 😁 It always makes me laugh (lighthearted - I appreciate your comment but it always makes me smile!)

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Spookypig · 14/11/2022 15:09

Onedayatatime22 · 14/11/2022 15:06

I understand that you like the names but why would you want to saddle a young woman with a name like that in this day and age? Why not Obedience while you're at it?

I'll step out. Just don't get it.

Because I think they’re all symbols of incredible strength and good character 😊 And beautiful sounding as well, of course!

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NoHeavenNoMore · 14/11/2022 15:10

Yes I really do like it! Do you have any ideas for middle names yet?

RosesAndHellebores · 14/11/2022 15:11

Verity
Felicity
Honor

I know someone called Loveness. Not quite a virtue name but nicer in many ways.

Onedayatatime22 · 14/11/2022 15:12

Then why not go for Courage, Resilience, Independence, Strength?,

EmmaGrundyForPM · 14/11/2022 15:15

I think virtue names are quite hard to live up to.

The only ones i really like are

Verity
Grace
Hope

MissHavishamsMouldyOldCake · 14/11/2022 15:20

Fly-Fornication would certainly be a memorable one.

I think Honor is my fave though. Hope and Faith are a bit drippy.

MissHavishamsMouldyOldCake · 14/11/2022 15:21

Prudence is lumpen and ugly.

DisforDarkChocolate · 14/11/2022 15:25

Constance.

ButtonMoonMrsSpoon · 14/11/2022 15:26

Faith but then that's the name I used. I also really like Constance.

Dizzymrslizzy · 14/11/2022 15:30

How about -

Felicity
Verity
Destiny
Charity
Liberty
Clarity

BuryingAcorns · 14/11/2022 15:38

I like Hope. And Grace.
Faith is OK.
Don't like Constance as a name. Or Mercy.
Prefer other 'Joy' names such as Allegra, Freya, Hilary rather than Joy itself

Blip · 14/11/2022 15:53

Chastity

WinterLobelia · 14/11/2022 15:55

I like virtue names as well.

I briefly flirted with the idea of Temperance when pg. DH pointed out that anyone who knew me would think I was trolling the poor child.

I also like Deliverance. But no-one could possibly call a child that.

LOVE Liberty.

WinterLobelia · 14/11/2022 15:56

Oh and i LOVE Honour.

dayswithaY · 14/11/2022 15:57

I love Verity and Patience. I nearly called my DD Honor but chickened out.

Floralnomad · 14/11/2022 16:00

I like Verity and Merry ( not Mercy ) .

FayCarew · 14/11/2022 16:42

Constance, also like Connie
I like Mercy but I keep thinking of that awful song in the charts a few years back - was it Duffy?
Faith: Faye/Fay is a bit too popular though, so she might get called Fay a lot, and there's the f for th issue - sounds like Fife in some accents.
Hope is a bit hopeless
Joy would probably be a misery

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 14/11/2022 16:47

RosesAndHellebores · 14/11/2022 15:11

Verity
Felicity
Honor

I know someone called Loveness. Not quite a virtue name but nicer in many ways.

Girl in my school was called Loveday.

SirVixofVixHall · 14/11/2022 16:51

Faith, Hope, Constance and Joy all lovely.
Less keen on Mercy.

SirVixofVixHall · 14/11/2022 16:52

I also like Verity and Liberty, oh and Felicity.

fairycupcakes · 14/11/2022 17:09

I think Honour is lovely!!

FayCarew · 14/11/2022 17:27

@fairycupcakes , the name is usually Honor. It's nice but tricky with some surnames

FindingMeno · 14/11/2022 17:31

Mercy