Sibling name for Tobias

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Currently 35/40 with baby boy number two and having so much trouble finding a first name!
His brother is Tobias (goes by Toby) and would like a name to flow nicely with this (no T names please!)
Husband is a teacher and of course this just makes things so much harder🙈
Surname is Barker for reference

Current faves (luckily my OH and I agree on all of them!):
Frederick
Hugo
Rupert
Edmund
Barnaby

Would love opinions on which to go for or any other name suggestions you feel are similar! Please help!

It's supposed to read sibling name for Tobias🙈 baby brain

Eddie (the Eagle)?! Sorry, couldn’t resist! 😀

Where does Skiing come into it 😵‍💫

Apres? Gluhwein? Fondue?

Barnaby

My elder DDs name was always mangled by her skiing instructors (her name doesn't work well in German) so she did have a different skiing name 😂

How about Gabriel (Gabe) or Jude?

Not sure but isn't this incredibly outing?

I thought by ski-ing name you meant Tobias wasn’t a posh enough name to ski with and I thought blimey..

Barnaby - nice although prefer Barnabas. Barney and Toby is a good combo

Hugo is fine. prefer Hugh

Can’t stand Rupert
Too many Ed names about
Frederick has been done to death

Others

Laurence
Patrick
Gabriel
Dominic
Zachary / Zachariah
Miles
Rufus
Rafe
Nathaniel
Francis
Alistair
Ernest
Marcus
Justin
Corin
Philip nn Pip
Robert nn Robin
Alexander nn Alec or Sandy
Kester

I would say Jude but it’s getting incredibly popular

Hugo is very common atm.

I think Rupert and Toby would be lovely.

Henrik is a nice name! :) would go well with Tobias, they’re both quite strong sounding!

Ben (zee knees)

I think Toby and Hugo sound nice together.

Tobias and Reuben

You have already shortened Tobias so its highly likely you will want to shorten the next one.
Frederick - Fred, Freddy
Hugo - Hu(e), Huw
Rupert - Roo
Edmund - Ed, Eddy
Barnaby - Barn, Barney

I know Barn isn't a real shortcut but its how people will say it. If there's one you can't stand then cross it off. Personally I find Roo a bit of an ick name for a man, probably because of winnie the pooh.

Out of the above I think Frederick will match Tobias better, even when both are shortened.

Tobias and Quentin
Tobias and Vincent
Tobias and Rufus

Toby and
Dexter
Rex
Ethan
Finley
Max
Leo
Sam
Marcus
Shay

i think Hugo, Barnaby or Rupert go best. Tobias and...
myles
rufus
ralph
rory
wilfred
hector
eli
otto

Isaac, Jonah, Joshua

Tobias and:

Reuben
Jeremy
Francis
Quentin
Ayrton
Philip
Kalman
Joseph

Banarby Barker is a bit too much like a story book character for me.

I like Frederick and Hugo from your list, and go well with the surname.

Rupert and Edmund are a little too posh for me- I can’t imagine shouting them across a playground. (But then you may be very posh).

Edmund is my favourite from your list. Love Rufus that a few people have mentioned. Others that seem to fit
Jago
Rafael
Sebastian
Miles
Nathaniel
Gabriel

I know it might be a bit too popular but I think Thomas (Tom) is nice with Toby

Rupert and Edmund are a little too posh for me- I can’t imagine shouting them across a playground.

What a strange thing to worry about

My favourites from the suggestions so far are Edmund, Quentin and Reuben. They all go well with Tobias.

Saying baby names out loud/ calling them out is a pretty common way of seeing if the name is right for you.

What a strange thing to comment on.