Okay so we finally agree on a short list (until the next name we like comes along! 😳)
Middle name for family reasons will be probably be Elise
Xanthe
Clemency (after a relative and we quite like it but don’t like Clementine)
Fleur
Lowenna
Elowen
Kerenza
Merryn
Robyn
I quite like names that are not too girly sounding but not harshly masculine if that makes sense