Help end medical misogyny. Sign our petition.

Help end medical misogyny.
Sign our petition.

Sign the petition

Please or to access all these features

Baby names

Find baby name inspiration and advice on the Mumsnet Baby Names forum.

Boys name help! If I like…

32 replies

Hermioninny · 24/02/2022 18:44

Expecting a little boy and DH and I are struggling! Middle name will be either William or Jack (or both) and surname is short, one syllable.

We like:

Rufus - not sure if I’m brave enough
Dylan - very popular round here so puts me off

And that’s as far as we’ve got Confused English/Irish background but DH has vetoed Irish names. Not keen on anything very popular, modern (Jaxon etc) or what DH thinks is posh (Tristan/Caspar etc).

We know what we don’t like Grin Help please!

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
Twizbe · 24/02/2022 18:46

James? Richard? Philip? Christopher? All go well with middle name choices.

All quite classic. Richard is perhaps due a revival.

Ellmau · 24/02/2022 18:48

Either Rufus William or Dylan Jack. They don't flow well the other way around. Of the two, I prefer Rufus William.

OhJesusEffingChrist · 24/02/2022 18:51

David
Daniel
Harry
Jude
Robin
Louis
James
Joseph
Jacob
Rocco

Lemonweightloss · 24/02/2022 18:53

I'm loving Peter atm.
Dominic ?

IggyAce · 24/02/2022 18:53

Alexander
Nathaniel
Ezekiel
Ralph

duvetdayforeveryone · 24/02/2022 18:56

@Ellmau I like Rufus William too :)

INeedtobealone · 24/02/2022 18:57

Rory
Dexter
Joshua
Eric
Nathaniel
Evan
Isaac
Oscar
Gregory
Arthur
Peter
Alistair
Toby/Tobias
Miles
Henry
Alexander
Euan
Nicholas
Adam
Angus
Samuel
Theodore
Joel
Liam
Benjamin
Caleb
Ivan
Otis
Wilfred
Frederick

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 24/02/2022 18:58

Rufus or Dylan are great.

Tobias
Oscar
Louis
Austin

Fivemoreminutes1 · 24/02/2022 18:58

Marcus
Dexter

User310 · 24/02/2022 19:09

I would defo go for Rufus over Dylan. Dylan has become one of those popular over used names where I live.

Essexmummy88 · 24/02/2022 19:31

Lucas?

bloominglovelyorange · 24/02/2022 19:53

Rufus is nice enough
What about Otis? Tristan? Austin? Eric? Ellis?

I also like an underused classic like Peter or Richard

bloominglovelyorange · 24/02/2022 19:54

Miles?

itsgettingweird · 24/02/2022 19:59

Why not William Jack or Jack William if you like them both?

I like Dylan.

But along those lines what about

Elliot Jack
Oscar William
Daniel William
Lucas William
Reuben Jack

itsgettingweird · 24/02/2022 20:00

I never read replies on a name thread before posting so as not to influence my answers.

Quite interesting to see some similar responses!

17caterpillars1mouse · 24/02/2022 20:18

Rufus was top of our list

We also liked

Nathaniel
Tobias
Elijah
Wilbur
Benedict
Benjamin
Judah

Hermioninny · 24/02/2022 22:01

@17caterpillars1mouse that’s nice to hear, it’s not a name I’ve come across much and I work with kids. I was expecting more negativity around Rufus for some reason!

I love Judah and Jonah but DH isn’t keen.

Our friends and family are boy heavy so a lot of these names have been used. Middle names are family names but otherwise not something we’d choose so not considering them for a first name.

OP posts:
WeasilyPleased · 24/02/2022 22:18

Rufus William is ace.

KirstenBlest · 25/02/2022 00:12

Rufus isn't 'out there'
names.darkgreener.com/#rufus

Don't like Dylan or Judah at all and not keen on Jonah

R names like Roman, Reuben, Rory and Rowan are very popular, and Rufus will blend in

Mumofgirls2017 · 25/02/2022 07:47

I like Rufus best, but Dylan is nice too. How about

Rupert
Rudy
Ralph
Rafe
Silas
Cyrus
Lucas
Felix
Max
Otis
Rex
Rowan
Quinn
Flynn
Milo

Quintilla · 25/02/2022 08:57

Love Rufus, but it’s definitely as posh as Tristan and Caspar in my book!

Reuben, Russell, Ross, Robin?

Jasper, August, Louis, Angus, Magnus?

DogsAndGin · 25/02/2022 09:42

Rufus is lovely, and not too ‘out there’
Other ideas:
Reuben
Jonah
Zachary
Miles
Arlo
Digby
Archie

Blubells · 25/02/2022 11:54

Rufus is nice of how about Quentin or Marcus?

I don't like Dylan

justpicksomething · 25/02/2022 14:03

Rufus
Dylan
Oscar
Noah
Max
Felix
Jasper

uncomfortablydumb53 · 25/02/2022 14:07

Felix
Louis
Daniel