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Elena

53 replies

angeltop · 23/02/2022 21:52

Thoughts please, pronounced el lay na

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UserBotLurking9to5 · 23/02/2022 21:54

Prefer the simplicity of Ellen

Elena could be ELLena or Ellayna

Purpleavocado · 23/02/2022 21:56

Love it! But I did assume it would be eLENa

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 24/02/2022 02:15

Pretty, simple and very popular in lots of other countries, but not overused here yet so a nice choice imo - although she could risk becoming another "Ellie/Ella", which might be avoided with similar Helena instead? .

Either way you may get pronunciation issues - but I think many people would pronounce Elena as you suggest OP, since the "Eh-lay-nuh" pronunciation is heard so frequently in US films and TV. To get the "Ellen-uh" pronunciation imo, I think you would need to use the very popular (in the UK) Eleanor - I know a few of those, and most people don't seem to pronounce the "or".

timestheyarechanging · 24/02/2022 05:05

Sadly, you won't get a choice of how it's pronounced by her friends. My daughter has a name with a prominent 't' but her friends still drop it!

How about Ella?

timestheyarechanging · 24/02/2022 05:07

I have a friend who is an Elloner and I feel your daughter will be called the same.

Hadtocomment · 24/02/2022 09:42

I really like it but I think I like it more like El-len-a rather than E-lay-na. But I also prefer Hel-len-a to Hel-lay-na

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 24/02/2022 09:45

Agree re pronounciation - the only Elenas I know (3) pronounce it as Eleanor

OutlookStalking · 24/02/2022 09:47

Id expect el- en- er.

I do get confused with these names (how would you spell it to get el-lay-na?)

Thatsplentyjack · 24/02/2022 09:47

I love it, but I'm biased because it's my dad's name. Although I spelled it phonetically because I knew people would have difficulty pronouncing it with the traditional spelling. Going by these posts I was right to do so.

Thatsplentyjack · 24/02/2022 09:48

Not my dad's name obviously 🤣, dds name.

Thatsplentyjack · 24/02/2022 09:50

I actually sort of wish I had just used the traditional spelling and corrected everyone who pronounced it wrong though.

BantersaurusSex · 24/02/2022 09:51

@Thatsplentyjack

I love it, but I'm biased because it's my dad's name. Although I spelled it phonetically because I knew people would have difficulty pronouncing it with the traditional spelling. Going by these posts I was right to do so.
How did you spell it?
Thatsplentyjack · 24/02/2022 09:51

@IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads

Agree re pronounciation - the only Elenas I know (3) pronounce it as Eleanor
Why would they pronounce it Eleanor? There's no R Confused
northernlola · 24/02/2022 09:52

Lovely name, my niece's name, but they pronounce Elena like Eleanor. I think you'd need an accent on it or an alternative spelling to show how it's meant to be pronounced.

I've got a name that means throughout my life, people have called me something else. Something very similar, but not quite it. It's an absolute burden so I make a point of giving my children names that cannot be mistaken!!

Thatsplentyjack · 24/02/2022 09:53

Alaina

Botanica · 24/02/2022 09:54

Really like it. It was also on our shortlist.

It works at any age, and is elegant without being cutesie. Not too common unlike many similar names.

SatinHeart · 24/02/2022 09:56

Love it OP, but as you can see from this thread you could be be forever correcting pronunciation (although in RL every Elena I know pronounces it like in your OP)

cherryonthecakes · 24/02/2022 09:57

I like it but many people in the Uk would say Ellen-a before Eh-lay-na

Fleur405 · 24/02/2022 09:57

This is on my list too as I love it but Im half Italian and would want the Italian pronunciation (EL-en-a) and the fact that there are multiple pronunciations is putting me off.

Although I never assumed one of them would be Eleanor!!

TheYearOfSmallThings · 24/02/2022 10:01

I like it and I never heard it pronounced "Eleanor" until I came to England. Most of the Elenas I know are Romanian and it does have that Ceausescu connotation, but that wouldn't bother me.

merryhouse · 24/02/2022 10:06

@Fleur405

This is on my list too as I love it but Im half Italian and would want the Italian pronunciation (EL-en-a) and the fact that there are multiple pronunciations is putting me off.

Although I never assumed one of them would be Eleanor!!

Possibly the people saying "like Eleanor" pronounce Eleanor as ELL-en-a (which I have done for the entirety of my 52 years and only recently realised was considered controversial).

How about Elaine?

toastofthetown · 24/02/2022 10:09

It’s inoffensive and pretty enough but the ubiquity of El- names just makes it bland to me.

lunar1 · 24/02/2022 10:10

I think it's lovely and easy to pronounce.

OutlookStalking · 24/02/2022 10:15

El-an-ah and Eleanor usually pronounced the same here (southern england.)

EmmaGrundyForPM · 24/02/2022 10:22

I would always pronounce it "e-LAY- nuh"

I think it's a very pretty name. I also like Eleanor but would pronounce that very differently.