Is my girls name choice really as bad as people are making out!?

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I’m starting to get paranoid. Me and dh are due a baby girl early next year and have decided on the name Theodora. It’s a name we both love and feel suits our family.
We like that it’s the name of a character in The Haunting of Hill House. We also have a Lydia after the character in beetlejuice .

However when I’ve been asked about names all but two people have pulled faces and one family member said it was a ridiculous name.
I don’t really understand what’s ridiculous about it so thought I’d ask here. Is it really that bad?

Beautiful name! I only told my DCs names to a select few before they were born... I had to be confident that the only comment would be "lovely!"

Love, love, love, I researched our family tree during lockdown and we have an ancestor with this name. Dora is my preferred NN.

I love it, and all of the shortenings too

I like Thea for a girl.

That is a really great name. Not just ok but great.

She can be Thea or Dora, or the whole thing.

Never tell people the name before they meet the baby. It's just asking for trouble. As soon as a name becomes a real person's name, it takes on a whole new character and association and feels completely different. Just try to forget you ever told them.

Love it.

Lovely name and goes well with Lydia.

Robbie Williams daughter is called Theodora.

I really like it.

It is beautiful!

Lovely name.

If I'd had a girl she would have been either Theodora or Dorothea (which are obvs basically the same but different order!) so I may be biased! Hoes well with her sister's name too.

We never discussed names with anyone with any of our dc before they arrived though. People tend to be a bit more polite about things when it's a done deal.

My grandma was a Theodora and her nickname was Lola….. not sure why. 😊

Good name and not that outlandish.

I love it! but I have a Theo so I'm slightly biased

It's a lovely name OP. Your baby, your choice. Ignore everyone else's opinion (except your DH). People really are rude - I would never criticize a name someone else had chosen (maybe in my head, but not to their face).

Its not bad but I prefer Thea,( I maybe biased though as Dd is called Thea)

Thea is beautiful.

I know a Theodora. No one ever calls her by her full name, she is always Theo. It’s a nice enough name, but be prepared for people to shorten it in different ways.

Thank you so much everyone!

People not liking the name because it’s just not there cup of tea but otherwise fine doesn’t bother me. Everyone has different preferences! I was starting to wonder if I was saddling her with something she’d want to change the minute she turned 16 though and that concerned me.

I’m glad that it’s nearly 100% neutral or liked. I won’t be telling anybody else though. I’ve learned my lesson on that one.

Great make - even better book!

Not my taste but it's OK. Not wildly ridiculous or inappropriate.

My first thought was lovely- nn Teddy.

I don’t like the name, but I like Teddy for short.

I love it

It's a charming name.

I love it!