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BeeBear2019 · 30/04/2021 08:57

We have a little boy, called Benjamin.
We have a little girl due in September and my Husband and I are both wanting the name Emma.

It might be just me... but does anyone think of Friends and Ross's children, or am I over thinking? 😂 xx

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BertieBotts · 30/04/2021 09:06

It was not my first thought at all :)

They are such common names (not a criticism) that I don't think it will occur to people. That's the good thing in some way about more traditional names, people have so many associations it kind of dilutes the associations that are there.

Toreportornot · 30/04/2021 09:42

Nope, I didn’t click either until you said.
Agree with the above, plus Friends is years old now and whilst a lot of people may be aware of the link, it’s not fresh in their minds.

AnyaMoondial · 30/04/2021 09:48

Fab names. Wouldn’t make the link to friends at all.

KirstenBlest · 30/04/2021 09:53

I like both names very much, and I did not know about Ross's children.

lovelsa · 30/04/2021 10:18

Nope! Didn't even cross my mind! Lovely names!

Dollywilde · 30/04/2021 10:19

I’ve watched Friends about a million times and I didn’t click until you pointed it out Smile think it’s fine, especially since you never see them as a pair. Jack and Erica I probably would click!

Edenember · 30/04/2021 10:22

No. As another pp has said, they’re such classic names that a particular association doesn’t stand out.

Warrickdaviesasplates · 30/04/2021 10:25

No I wouldn't have made that connection at all.

If you'd named your DC Chandler and Monica or Ross and Rachel maybe I'd say "oh like in friends?" But Benjamin and Emma are very normal names so it's not like an immediate link would be made to a... 20 year old? Sitcom.

Lnix · 30/04/2021 10:26

Didn't cross my mind at all.

I love both names!

DinosaurDiana · 30/04/2021 10:28

Nope, not until you said it. Two lovely, classic names.

Horehound · 30/04/2021 10:30

Nope didn't cross my mind either.
I love benjamin,am thinking of using it myself.
And Emma is a lovely name too.

LakeShoreD · 30/04/2021 10:31

It’s been long enough, I don’t think friends is in the forefront of anyone’s minds anymore. Emma has been having a comeback in the US for a few years now. I know so many under 5 but all American.

Ginandplatonic · 30/04/2021 10:33

Nope didn’t cross my mind at all. I just thought they are two lovely names - classic but not hugely common these days,

BeeBear2019 · 30/04/2021 11:07

Thank you everyone!
I watch a lot of Friends and didn't want anyone to think I had named my children after Ross Geller 😂

I love classic/timeless names and Emma stood out to me immediately ❤ xx

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Rainbowqueeen · 30/04/2021 11:08

Love both
Didn’t connect them to friends at all

dopeyduck · 30/04/2021 12:14

I LOVE friends! It was not my first thought at all. I like the names even more now though!

You're overthinking.

Both lovely names.

Congratulations!

WildCherryBlossom · 30/04/2021 14:06

I have seen all episodes of Friends so many times and the didn't make the connection at all. They aren't known as a sibling set really so I wouldn't worry. It's not like Bill & Ben or Max & Ruby where the names are always said together (I have met siblings with these names too)

FeedMeSantiago · 30/04/2021 16:29

I didn't make the association.

From memory Ben was barely seen or mentioned in the later series of Friends so I don't think 'Ben and Emma' were mentioned together very often.

Thedogscollar · 30/04/2021 18:06

Hi OP never watched Friends.
Both very lovely names. Congratulations hope all goes well in September.

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 30/04/2021 18:08

Nope not at all. It made me think of people I know called Benjamin and Emma (in the same family)

BeeBear2019 · 02/05/2021 05:55

Yay! I am definitely over thinking then 😂 Thank you everyone ❤ xx

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daisyducky · 02/05/2021 06:09

I watched friends on loop breastfeeding 2 kids and I didn't make the connection even if your sons name was shortened to Ben. Lovely sibling names!

KNain · 02/05/2021 06:29

I'll be honest, I did make the link but I don't think it matters. It was fleeting and I wouldn't think you'd named them after the show characters, just a coincidence - they're lovely, classic names. It's not like you named them Ross and Monica!

zigaziga · 02/05/2021 07:00

Didn’t think about it until you said, I don’t think there’s a problem.

Besides.. hadn’t Ross basically ditched Ben by the time Emma came along?! 😬😂

JustMeAndWheatley · 02/05/2021 07:13

I wouldn’t have registered the connection. I watched friends years ago but don’t remember the baby names.

Emma is a lovely name (as is Benjamin). Go for it!

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