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Harry or Frank

30 replies

hughthehedgehog · 02/01/2021 15:27

Just that really. 2 weeks to go so at crunch time and we can't decide between these two!
Middle name will be Douglas and surname is very non-offensive 2 syllable name that would go with either.

So which would you choose and why?

Also to say though I am generally a big fan of longer more formal name on BC in this instance I really don't like Henry or Frances so please don't suggest these names as alternatives! Have considered Harrison and Franklin on BC but not sure how these surname names will date/not sure if feels a bit try hard?

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PrivateParty · 02/01/2021 15:34

Harry.
Don't like Frank. Can't imagine a young person called it.

daisypond · 02/01/2021 16:39

Can’t you use Douglas? That is fabulous. I really dislike both Harry and Frank. They’re bland and forgettable. Frances is a girl’s name, though. At a push, I’d go for Frank.

newmum332 · 02/01/2021 16:49

Harry is inoffensive but very popular.
I don’t like Frank, Francis or Franklin, sorry.
Harry out of the 2 .

RusholmeRuffian · 02/01/2021 16:52

I'd go for Frank

Wanderlusto · 02/01/2021 16:54

I like Douglas.

Middle names are an unnecessary pain in the arse anyway. Just extra shit to fill out on forms.

I find harry and Frank to be elderly man names tbh.

Swingometer · 02/01/2021 16:56

I'd choose Frank over Harry but agree with others that Douglas is a great name

Douglas Frank?

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 02/01/2021 17:23

Of the two, Harry. While I much prefer classic Henry (as I generally like traditional names), I struggle to get past the vision of an old man with the name Frank (or the image of TV's Frank Spencer). Harry is such a well used/common name that I don't really have any preconceptions - it suits most boys and shouldn't date.

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 02/01/2021 17:25

And yes, Harrison and Franklin are part of the surname trend and will likely date more than Harry.

SpeckledyHen · 02/01/2021 17:29

Frank(ie)

Ithinkhedidit · 02/01/2021 17:31

I'd go for Frank. Harry has really spiked in popularity recently around my area. I do know a little Frank but he is adorable so it makes me like the name more. I don't think you need a longer name but if you opt for one I prefer Franklin over Francis.

hughthehedgehog · 02/01/2021 19:17

Thank you for the replies ☺️ appreciate it

I know it's strange and doesn't stand to reason when considering a pretty old fashioned name like Frank but for some reason though I like it as a middle name and is a family name for DH I just can't do Douglas as a first name - he quite liked it so did try but I either think of an old grumpy Scottish man or otherwise just find it a bit of a weak name for a boy- no reasoning I think it's just personal experience! There's been quite a few of my preferred names OH has vetoed for similar - no reasoning but just personal experience feelings.

Appreciate all tastes are different though & mean no offence!

Also forgot to say would probs use Frankie as a nn along with Frank whilst they're young

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SacreBleeeurgh · 02/01/2021 20:35

Of those two, Harry all day long.

Though I also infinitely prefer Douglas (and Dougie/Doug...)

DramaAlpaca · 02/01/2021 20:37

I like Harry very much.

I just don't like the look/sound of Frank.

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 02/01/2021 20:39

Love Harry. Frank seems more like a sausage dog these days...

june2007 · 02/01/2021 20:39

Francis is nicer.

littlemisslozza · 02/01/2021 20:43

I know a few boys called Frank and it's a great name. Quite cool as they grow up and could be 'Frankie' when little.

I love Dougie though. Also know a couple.
Harry is just too common for me, there are loads of them.

MondeoFan · 02/01/2021 21:09

I like Frank
Too many Harry's about
I like Frank Douglas or Douglas Frank

Firebird83 · 02/01/2021 21:22

Frank Douglas

Mol1628 · 02/01/2021 21:30

Frank Douglas

Kote · 02/01/2021 21:32

Harry

Angel2702 · 02/01/2021 21:37

I like Frank, similar sort of name but not as popular. Harry is extremely popular. I wish we’d used it as it’s a family name.

lemonsquashie · 03/01/2021 09:25

Harry is better than frank. Frank seems a bit Chav these days

Douglas is awful: sorry. Don't give him that as first name. It's ugly.

kat0107 · 03/01/2021 09:46

I really like both of them - if popularity is a consideration, then perhaps Frank, but Harry is a great name too.

Danu2021 · 03/01/2021 09:49

I like Francis / Frankie

Harry ok but it is just too common.

Danu2021 · 03/01/2021 09:49

I love Douglas / Dougie!

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