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If I said Téa ....

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indianaJames · 02/10/2020 14:26

Would you struggle knowing how to pronounce this name? Or is it a non issue?

My understanding is it's pronounced 'tay-ah'
Please correct me if I'm wrong!
Thank you

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Squeakerfoot · 02/10/2020 15:04

I pronounce it Tay-a

SoupDragon · 02/10/2020 15:05

Isn’t café pronounced Caff-ay though? So it’s Tay-a by that logic.

That's what I thought. I can't work out how else Café is pronounced.

On the subject of accents, even on my phone I can get é by holding my finger on the E until the selection of accents comes up.

Not all computer systems support accents in the U.K.

Not all computer systems support hyphens either.

AhCheeses · 02/10/2020 15:08

My friend's daughter is called Tehya, similar name, much less chance of mispronunciation!

RizzleDrizzle · 02/10/2020 15:09

@Grufallosfriends

Téa is pronounced Té-a (é like café)

It is NOT pronounced Tay-a!

How do you pronounce the e in café because like grayish

I’m having a little difficulty understanding why that isn’t Tay-a

2bazookas · 02/10/2020 15:10

If that's a baby name, won't she always be Teapot at school?

I prefer Theadora.  A graceful name for child or adult, which also  offers a choice of affectionate nicknames , Thea and Dora
elp30 · 02/10/2020 15:16

"If I said Téa, you'd say..."

Leoni

She is the actress in "Madam Secretary" and I would pronounce the name as she does.

Mustangsallyis · 02/10/2020 15:17

One in my DC's class is pronounced Tay-a

GreyishDays · 02/10/2020 15:18

@Grufallosfriends
Can you put us out of our misery? How do you pronounce it, using the café logic?

tdm1 · 02/10/2020 15:20

@Grufallosfriends

Téa is pronounced Té-a (é like café)

It is NOT pronounced Tay-a!

I'm not understanding what you think is the difference
penaltytaker · 02/10/2020 15:26

But café is pronounced caff-ay @grufallosfriends so therefore Tay-a (I'd still pronounce it tee-ah)

merryhouse · 02/10/2020 15:30

If the accent were present I would pronounce it Tey-a (with the usual caveats about final syllable being actually a schwa in my accent) but would half-expect to be told something else because it's amazing how many people don't know what accents do.

If you call her Thea everyone will assume it's the English pronunciation - possibly even if it has an accent because it looks like a name we know how to say.

Go with Téa, and tell the school how to pronounce it. The vast majority of the children will grow used to the name long before they learn to read it.

Besides, it might be quite fun to be called Teapot. I had friends at primary school called Lic and Dough - Dough short for Doughnut because her name was Shona, and Lic short for Licquorice Allsort because her name was Elizabeth Alsop. One of the other girls was known as Beanie - can't remember why, if I ever knew - and little Miss Crabb was affectionately addressed as Crabby. I was known as Winks for years.

ClaudiaWankleman · 02/10/2020 15:33

I assume @Grufallosfriends is referring to how, in French, café is pronounced without a 'y' sound at the end. It's a short open sound, probably closer to the first 'e' in 'excellent'.

I don't think Téa would work well in the UK for the reason that many people in the UK do insert another sound between two vowels - usually either an 'r' or a 'y'. The 'y' is almost inevitable here.

Kanaloa · 02/10/2020 15:34

I would pronounce it Tay-ah. Like the month of May with ‘ah’ on the end. I think a lot of people would say Tea though.

NandosPeriometer · 02/10/2020 15:35

I wouldn't if you live in England

The accent if cafe is dropped in English so I think your dd would end up being called Tea. T/Tee/Tea is a cool nickname but not what you're looking for at all. Even if someone remembered that there was an accent, people might put it on the e or the wrong way around on the a which would be annoying

IndieRo · 02/10/2020 15:35

I would say Tay-ah. If it was Tia the tee-ah

merryhouse · 02/10/2020 15:35

I also don't see Gruffalo's difference. We definitely need to learn and use ASCII IPA. Years ago I was told emphatically that Ailbhe was not pronounced Alva. When I met Ailbhe and heard how she pronounced her name I couldn't tell the difference between that and how I would pronounce Alva.... (again, I think it's the schwa. I use the same sound for Eleanor as well, which I have gathered is decidedly Not Done round here).

NandosPeriometer · 02/10/2020 15:39

In English it would be Tay-a but I'm guessing in French you don't join the Te and a with a "y" sound so you say Teh-ah.

NandosPeriometer · 02/10/2020 15:40

In English we say ca-ffay in French it's more ca-feh

Coffeeandaride · 02/10/2020 15:43

I wouldn’t be sure! Probably say “tea” knowing it’s probably not right.
Confused from the thread on which way is right.

Would know how to pronounce Thea (I think)

Marmite27 · 02/10/2020 15:44

Tay-a. Like Tea Leonie.

perfumeistooexpensive · 02/10/2020 15:50

Don't use Tia though. It means aunt in Spanish.

ItalianHat · 02/10/2020 15:58

Thea (pron. tay-ah) is a fairly standard German name.

I'd pronounce it correctly, but wonder why you haven't spelled it correctly.

Knittedfairies · 02/10/2020 16:00

@Marmite27

Tay-a. Like Tea Leonie.
Yes.
Alexandernevermind · 02/10/2020 16:00

I would go Greek Mythology and spell it Thiea.

Dowermouse · 02/10/2020 16:05

Tay-uh. I'd assume Dutch or German.
And now I keep pronouncing cafe "caarf". Ho hum.

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