Which of these do you prefer?

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And suggestions for middle names (I know not necessary but DD has one so want to follow suit)
Joel
Johnny (John on birth certificate)
Joss (Joseph on birth certificate)
All purely hypothetical at the moment unfortunately.

John

Joss or Joel

Johnny makes me think of rubber Johnny

Not fantastically keen on any of them, but out if the three ‘Joel’ though, to show my age, my friends would assume it was after Billy Joel who I love 😂

Have you thought about Jonte (Jont-ee) as nickname for John/Jonathan.

Not keen on any of them. I think Joss will get mistaken for Josh a lot and surely Joe would be the shortened version of Joseph?

John is great. I like John Alexander.

I prefer John

Joseph!

I like John but not Johnny.

Joel is great, as is Joseph - but not Joss (too much like Toss).

So I would say Joel or Joseph (Joe).

Other suggestions, as you seem to be drawn to J names , could be Jed, James or Jack.

Nice middle names would depend on which first name you choose, but just for a few ideas;

Joel Oliver
Jed Sebastian
James Dominic
Jack Marcus

I like Joel the most.

As a young person, I think John might be slightly old fashioned for someone my age (and younger). It’s classic, but a bit dated. Joel seems more youthful.

John

Joseph but Joe rather that Joss.
John is a fine name in its own right. Johnny is a condom, it’s awful

Dylan
Devon
Damian
Devlin
Dean

Joseph nickname Joss, love it.

John then Joel. Johnny is nice too. Nice for a little boy and a young lad.

John.

Jonathan is even nicer.

My Jonny is 19.
Big strapping rugby player.
In fact there are quite a few famous rugby players with the same name.
Has never been teased about condoms, I dont think they are called "Jonnys" anymore by their generation. Its "Rubbas" innit

John nn Johnny is my favourite

Joseph. Ours is a Joe, Joey or Jobi wan kinobi.

John Joel nn JJ
John Alistair
John Christopher
John Sebastian
John William