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Help! Can you give her an English name?

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RDecember · 11/10/2018 13:11

Hi! I’m looking for an English name for one of my friend’s daughter. I’ll write down a description of her below, and if any names pop into your mind then feel free to tell me! :)

She’s Asian, very pale with black hair and black eyes. Extremely pretty with a small, elfin face shape. Looks a bit cold, but she’s a friendly type of person once you get to know her, and she's not the gossipy sort (just likes to mind her own business).
Overall she has a very elegant and calm demeanor, and we agreed that her name should probably be longer than one syllable. I think she looks like an “Olivia”, and some people say that she looks like an “Iris”, but we’re looking for a name that’ll suit her better.

If you guys have any recommendations, please let us know! We'd really appreciate it

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Dontfeellikeamillenial · 11/10/2018 13:13

Is the description of the baby or the mother?

RDecember · 11/10/2018 13:17

I would say the baby, but she's already in her teens😂 My friend's family is moving to America in a few weeks, but the Asian name of her daughter is difficult to pronounce for most westerners, so she's looking for an English one :D

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Hoppinggreen · 11/10/2018 13:20

Wouldn’t it be better to try and anglicise her actual name ( if it’s necessary at all)
That’s what quite a few people I know do.
If you feel comfortable saying what the name is and how it’s pronounced maybe we can offer suggestions

imsorryiasked · 11/10/2018 13:23

How about Tia or Leya?
Mae is lovely.
Or Jade?

Sunflower321 · 11/10/2018 13:24

I'm sure people can pronounce her name with a bit of practice. It's really not necessary to give up her name Shock

Dontfeellikeamillenial · 11/10/2018 13:26

Brooke? Anais?

Kokeshi123 · 11/10/2018 13:27

I think it's her choice, frankly. Not everyone appreciates the difficulties that come with a name that everyone stumbles over.

If she wants an English name, I would give her a baby name book and suggest that she chooses one. Or suggest a name that is similar in sound to her actual Asian name.

Disfordarkchocolate · 11/10/2018 13:27

Surely at that age she can pick a name if she actually wants one!

Dontfeellikeamillenial · 11/10/2018 13:27

Asians do this a lot, everyone in Australia had a western name

Dontfeellikeamillenial · 11/10/2018 13:27

Everyone I. E. All the Asian women I met

theconstantinoplegardener · 11/10/2018 13:35

Well, Darcy or Melanie both mean "dark" of you are looking for a name that reflects her appearance. But I imagine that Darcy is rare in the US, and Melanie is a bit 1970s.

Jennifer has been very popular in the US so everyone would be able to pronounce that. Or how about Melissa? Lauren? Chelsea? Susie?

Changedmynametoolikeyou · 11/10/2018 13:37

Monica or Louisa

girlandboy · 11/10/2018 13:38

What letter does her current name begin with? It might be nice to stick with the same letter.

theconstantinoplegardener · 11/10/2018 13:40

If you Google "popular girls names usa", that should give you a pretty comprehensive list to choose from.

Tinty · 11/10/2018 13:41

Alexis (Lexi)

strawberrisc · 11/10/2018 13:43

Hildegarde

LividAtDolphins · 11/10/2018 13:47

Looks a bit cold

Elsa? Grin

LavenderBush · 11/10/2018 13:50

Olivia sounds lovely.

Hildegarde 😂😂😂

Or Grace, Chloe, Eleanor?

BigusBumus · 11/10/2018 13:53

Anna. Or Celia.

Sunshiness · 11/10/2018 13:58

Cecilia

PassportBridgetPants · 11/10/2018 15:26

Yes, could you keep the same first letter or sound? I knew a (forgive wrong spellings) Dawon who became Diane, Jing who became Jean, and Huanei who became Honey. The only issue, as above, is avoiding dated names. Fwiw I always thought Jing could have kept her original name - easy to spell and pronounce.

MrsFionaCharming · 11/10/2018 15:50

I’d look at popular US names for the year she was born. I have a few Korean friends who have taken English names, and some of them have picked ones that are very unusual and a bit strange for their age.

seeyouhen · 11/10/2018 16:07

Jasmine/ Yasmin

IdaBWells · 11/10/2018 16:11

I think Googling names that were popular from 2003-2006 covers 12-15 year olds. If she picks a name from the top 50 she will fit right in with her age group.

missmouse101 · 11/10/2018 16:15

Sophia?