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Baby Name for Sikh/English girl

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NewDad2018 · 09/08/2018 10:43

Hi all...

This may be the totally wrong place to ask ...but I could do with help

So.. The background

I'm a sikh (turban wearing) man...who married a blonde blue eyed english woman. Been married a looooong time.

We have now had a baby girl.

So... now we have an issue finding a name that works.

Constraints from us both.

The don't wants :
totally English name,
totally Indian name,
long name that will just get shortened anyway,

a name that is muslim/arabic in origin or attachment.

Please Help!!!

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Jennyvenice · 09/08/2018 22:31

Zara
Tara
Anjali

kaytee87 · 09/08/2018 22:32

Aria/ Arya
Amber
Alana/Alanna
Kari

LadyLance · 09/08/2018 22:35

Blaine (apparently a sikh girls name and an anglicised Scotts name)

crazydoglady6867 · 09/08/2018 22:36

Greysi I think that is a Sikh name but it transfers to English well.

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NewDad2018 · 09/08/2018 22:42

@SassitudeandSparkle
Thanks... but thats a guj/hindu name

@LemonysSnicket
Sorry.. thats a muslim name

@daydreamdaisy
Priya could work... but the others are muslim/arabic in origin

@jennyvenice
Yes. .they do seem the front runners

@Fishface77
Balwinderjeetpaldeep was the front runner

@kaytee87
Sara was in the mix... but she'll constantly be correcting people on how to pronounce it... no.. its Sa-Ra...

Amy... ania ..not so much... Anya - may get in the mix....

@Katjolo
Sunita is hindi...so won't work...

Thanks all again....

OP posts:
SoyUnPerdedor2 · 09/08/2018 22:44

What about thinking of meanings?
Names of family members?
Myths/legends/traditional stories?
Flowers? Gem stones?
Favourite places?

Daisy
Lily
Poppy
Rose

Are all short, sweet names. What about the Sikh name for a pretty flower?

MadameJosephine · 09/08/2018 22:45

Anya
Amber
Elora
Amna
Elise
Serena
Jenna
Saffron
Jessamine
Sophia
Joy
ameli

Waterlemon · 09/08/2018 22:48

Ok completely out the box ...

I know a few Sikh males with the name Angad,
There is a welsh female name that I have always loved Angharad (pronounced with a softer g - Ang-Harrad)

pieceofpurplesky · 09/08/2018 22:48

Bebe
Kaya

ConferencePear · 09/08/2018 22:55

Layla/ Leila ?

moredoll · 09/08/2018 22:56

Sasha.
Zara
Anna
Amber

Redteapot67 · 09/08/2018 22:59

A tough one!

Leena
Laila
Priya
Tia

Or I guess you stop trying to find a compromise name and go maybe English first name, Sikh second name as I guess she’s already got a Sikh sounding surname?
Next child Wink you swap

MinaPaws · 09/08/2018 22:59

Top of the list: Anya

Mina
Nina
Mira
Anjeli
Anita
Sufia

hurrythefuckupgeorge · 09/08/2018 23:04

My friends Sikh/Scottish daughter is called Ria. No idea the origins but I love it

howrudeforme · 09/08/2018 23:05

NewDad

Well I’m old. My Asian dm and English dd wanted a name that was simple and,most importantly, easy to pronounce in both languages. Plenty of options.

My ds has a father of yet another country and we both wanted names that were sort of recognisable in all our cultures and also easy to articulate. Fewer options and my liking of ‘jake’ was out the window when mil nearly choked trying to pronounce it 🤭

howrudeforme · 09/08/2018 23:07

Nina/jasmine (but I prefer Yasmin)/Rosie

Redteapot67 · 09/08/2018 23:12

Meena is pretty
Zara might work too??

LucyFox · 09/08/2018 23:13

I really like Anita - very underused
Or something like Annika/Annica could work as it’s neither language yet works in both ...
Lila (Lie-la)
Rebecca
Davina
Gina (jee -na )
Jessa
Susanna, Suki
Yasmin
Zena, Zara/Zahra

AlexaShutUp · 09/08/2018 23:31

Hello OP. We have the same mix - I'm British, DH is Punjabi. We really struggled with names for our dd. I didn't like a lot of the English names that DH would have chosen and the Indian names that I liked were mostly Hindu - very few of the Sikh names appealed to me.

Eventually, as DD has a Punjabi surname, we decided to give her an English first name and a Punjabi middle name. We both "approved" both names. DH and I are happy with the choice that we made, as it reflects both sides of her heritage. Luckily, dd likes her name too!

saraheyes · 09/08/2018 23:31

Khivi - wife of Guru Angad Dev Ji Smile

AlexaShutUp · 09/08/2018 23:32

most importantly, easy to pronounce in both languages

Yes, this was a key consideration for us too. Also, no odd meanings in either language!Grin

sleepyhead · 09/08/2018 23:37

Rona, Tiree, Skye, Iona

hellololly · 09/08/2018 23:52

Nina
May
Ria
Vida
Raya
Leah/Lia

hellololly · 09/08/2018 23:52

Riva

howrudeforme · 09/08/2018 23:59

Thing is if you don’t want names ‘totally English or Indian’ - you could call your dd Ivana/Gertrude/Sade/sinaed etc and then think they don’t represent you.

In the end my parents gave me an English (but common in the world) name that was similar to an old Bollywood actress and also the character of a uk 1960s series that they liked. Have my two grans’ names as middle names.

My son has exh surname (and it’s pure comedy) so we plumped for a very boring English name (that has xh language very similar sounding equivalent) and the two grandads’ names as middle names.

Asian and English names are not that incompatible. Take a look at your dd and see what name you both think suits her self.