Hi,
I absolutely love the name Violet, but mine and my husbands surname begins with D 
I personally don't think it is that big of a deal, since STI is the term that's used in schools these days and she would have a middle name (Violet Faye), so her initials would be VFD.
Do you think I can get away with these initials, or do you think it needs to be vetoed. There are no other girls names we like 
By the way, we don't know the gender, so I could be stressing over nothing if baby is a boy.