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Emer Lily- Opinions?

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liadaintheirishpoetess · 19/04/2017 12:34

I think we've just about settled on Emer Lily (pronounced EE-mer). We've gone back and forth with Orla and Emer but we've taken the plunge and decided Emer's probably the best. What do you think of Emer Lily?

Our other children are Killian Joshua, Aoife Rose, Aislinn Juliet, Ruairi Benjamin and Lachlan Isaac. Does her name go well with theirs?
General opinions would be much appreciated.
Thank you Smile

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Ecureuil · 19/04/2017 12:36

I've never heard the name Emer before but I like it!
I also like Orla though...

Reow · 19/04/2017 12:38

As long as you don't mind correcting everyone pronouncing it as Emma?

AGapInTheMarket · 19/04/2017 12:39

My child has a little friend called Ima? I think that's a bit more phonetic/ bit less likely to end up Emma.

DaisyChainsForever · 19/04/2017 12:39

I'd be worried that Emer would be forever pronounced Emma and you and ur dd will spend a life time explaining it.

Reow · 19/04/2017 12:40

Ima spelling is much better

ScarletSienna · 19/04/2017 12:41

I like Emer but think it may be a little close in sound to Aoife.

liadaintheirishpoetess · 19/04/2017 12:42

We are in Ireland so should have no issues with pronunciation hopefully!

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liadaintheirishpoetess · 19/04/2017 12:44

Now @ScarletSienna I thought that, but we pronounce EE-mer with the mer sounding like the start of mermaid and pronounce EE-fa with the fa sounding like the start of fantastic so it does sound pretty different when you say it.

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Thatextrainch · 19/04/2017 12:44

I thought Emer was the anglicised Eimear? Am I wrong?

SuperBeagle · 19/04/2017 12:46

I'd pronounce it like Emma, but it wouldn't be a problem in Ireland, presumably. I like it 😊

liadaintheirishpoetess · 19/04/2017 12:48

@Thatextrainch you're not wrong but not right either. Emer is a variation in spelling of Eimear, neither are the anglicised version, I think?

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ScarletSienna · 19/04/2017 12:52

In my southern English accent, both beginning and ending sounds are the same but I can see not in an Irish accent so go for it! It's a lovely name.

FrancisCrawford · 19/04/2017 13:02

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Teabagtits · 19/04/2017 13:21

Would people not think you were saying Emily with a south east speech impediment?

lorelairoryemily · 19/04/2017 13:25

I'd spell in Eimear, beautiful name and as you're in Ireland ther won't be any pronunciation issues. Ima is a ridiculous spelling!!

MiniMaxi · 19/04/2017 14:07

I like Emer Lily!

Personally prefer Orla, but not Orla Lily - too many L's!

RedDogsBeg · 19/04/2017 14:15

It's nice, OP, in fact all your children's names are nice even though my English pronunciation probably wouldn't do them justice.

liadaintheirishpoetess · 19/04/2017 15:30

Thanks @RedDogsBeg!! Please do keep your advice coming.

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greeeen · 19/04/2017 15:38

Sounds like Emma in a west county accent to me and I can't get past that. Really like Orla though.

Rockaby · 19/04/2017 15:42

I am Irish but live in England. I prefer Orla to Emer, but both are nice. Maybe wait till she arrives and see which suits her best?

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LapinR0se · 19/04/2017 15:45

LOvely name, doesn't need the lily

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 19/04/2017 15:46

I have an Irish friend named Emer and she pronounces in EEEEE-ma. (definitely not pronouncing "R" on the end)

You'll just need to be patient and correct people if they get it wrong-my DD's name has two different pronunciations and she hates when ppl get it wrong but I love her name so when ppl get it wrong I just say it back to them how we pronounce it.

CrazedZombie · 19/04/2017 15:48

I'm English but the name Emer Lily looks like a misspelled Emily. (Emilily?) I would go for Emer but with a different middle name.

Rockaby · 19/04/2017 15:48

greeeen

Emer isn't pronounced emm-er. It's eem-er, where I come from at least. So not like Emma in a West Country accent.

I've lived in the West Country too and nobody I knew there put a random r at the end of words with no r in them anyway. They just pronounced the r sounds which are silent in other parts of England, like where I live now (Home Counties) and people say things like "watah" instead of water or "buttah" instead of butter, for example. So even in a West Country accent Emma would be Emma, not Emmer afaik.

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