Faye

[Gretall]

This is probably stupid but I'm having a real name wobble and my daughter is 2 and a half!! We chose the name Faye but TBH it was slightly more my oh's choice. I feel like I've grown into myself and my style these last couple of years which also has made me have very different taste in names. I really like old fashioned names and I just don't love the name faye as awful as that sounds. It feels way too late to change it now but I was thinking of giving her a nickname or something. Am I being stupid??! Honesty is allowed

I love it! It's a beautiful name. So pretty but strong too.

I love it too! It's a great name .

It's a nice name OP, it's a name that she can grow with, leave things as they are. 😀

Thanks all, I do appreciate it. I worry she doesn't suit her name as she's a very tall, well built whirlwind and I see the name Faye as quite delicate....hopefully she'll grow into it

I've heard of a Faye who gets called Fi Fi.
I think Faye is lovely as it is though (plus I also know one who is tall & has an athletic physique but it's still her name & suits her)

I felt like this at about the same age but the feeling soon passed and now I love the name we used more than ever!

I don't see the name Faye as delicate. I tend to see names that end in an 'ee' sound as delicate - Maisy, Millie, Daisy, Ellie, Lily, Sophie etc. I see Faye as a strong, cool name. I really like it.

I Love it

I think of Fayes as being tall and strong and benevolent so it doesn't sound like it necessarily doesn't suit her.

There's no reason you can't introduce a nn if you want though..

It's been good enough for Faye Dunaway.

It's quite similar to Freya, which is very popular at the moment, so I don't think it's out of place. Just slightly different from the current top names.

I know a little Faith who gets called Fay(e) a lot. It's sweet. Suits her.

She's two and a half so you need to accept that her name isn't going to change. I think there comes a stage where a person just kind of becomes their name and it's no longer a matter of whether you like it or whether they suit it, they just are it.

Personally I like the name Faye, it sounds fresh compared to all those 'vintage' style names you say you like.

It's lovely. It is quite unusual nowadays and as a pp says, it is loads nicer than all those cutesy, over-popular vintage names.

Faye seems dated and 70s to me tbh. I know two Faye's in their late 30's and it also make me think of Faye Dunnaway. To be 'fey' also suggests vagueness and uselessness rather than strength. Like you I prefer older, more 'vintage' names. You could certainly use Fifi as a nn if you prefer?

Ps. Sorry just re-read this and realized your daughter is 2.5. So sorry! Oh well there's an honest opinion. Ignore stupid people on the internet! I do quite like Fifi! x

It's gorgeous. I might nick it, if you don't mind?

Fee would be a nice nickname, it means fairy in french.
Or Freja perhaps?
But imo Faye is a strong name. It makes me think of the actress Faye Dunnaway who certainly is a strong glamorous figure.

If you really an alternative to use then Fee/Fi is a cute nickname, or Effie?

I think it's a gorgeous name. Your daughter will grow up to be herself whatever name you give her. She won't change in any way just because you decided at 2.5 to re-name her as 'Melissa'

Thanks all I do feel better about it now. The name I wanted to swap Faye for was Matilda and I guess a couple of you are right in saying its a lot more popular than Faye these days. Flippingecktucker go for it :)

Oh and also thanks for the effie suggestions! I've forgotten about that name and do like it

Matilda would quickly become Tilly which is pretty cutesy itself Faye is great but if it bothers you you could always start calling her 'F' and progress to Effie.

i think faye is a pretty old fashioned and cool name :) matilda would probably be shortened to tilly which isn't half as nice as faye imo

Faye is a great name! Way cooler than Matilda - there are loads of them around. Don't doubt yourself.