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Willow for a boy?

86 replies

Almondinha · 26/12/2016 11:20

Hi! We just found out recently that we are having a little boy - our first baby. So if course we have been busy talking about names.
The other day while we were out on a walk, I came up with the name Willow which we both love and were really excited about.
I don't know anyone named Willow and to me it sounded like a perfect boys name and seemed perfectly suitable. However when we got home and looked up the name online, we found out that it is a girls name! We were quite disappointed.
I know that nowadays children can be called anything. However I don't want to give my child a higher likelihood of being bullied etc just because of his name.
Should we think about something else or does Willow work fine for a boy too?
Thank you for your opinions.

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woodhill · 30/12/2016 10:57

I think of it as a girl's name. I wouldn't use it on a boy as it may set them up to ridicule and make things more difficult for them.

Fartleks · 30/12/2016 10:59

What about Willoughby and you can call him willough.

Fartleks · 30/12/2016 11:00

He could use will in school maybe

EweAreHere · 30/12/2016 11:03

Please don't do that to your boy.

TheGruffaloMother · 30/12/2016 11:24

I know 2 Willows. Both girls. I really can't imagine a boy stating his name was Willow without being either guarded or embarrassed.

Incidentally, my name is also a technical unisex name that is conventionally only used for girls. I've met a man with my name and he was an absolute thug who definitely had something to prove.

T2016 · 31/12/2016 00:15

How about Willen? That's on my boys name list!! Soft yet not so feminine as Willow

T2016 · 31/12/2016 11:01

How about willen?

buttercup54321 · 03/01/2017 00:07

Not for a boy. Far too girly. William?

reuset · 03/01/2017 01:38

Doesn't help that it's super popular for girls and only used now and then for boys. I personally think it sounds fine for a boy/man, though my only real reference point is the old film, Willow where the main character of that name was male.

Mamatallica · 03/01/2017 12:26

I've only heard it used as a male name in the film but I bought a book for my niece Willow called "Willow at Christmas" and was surprised to find the eponymous bear was male.
Due to popularity as a female name, I wouldn't recommend it for a son but hell, if people are naming their daughters James these days, maybe it's time to claim some names back for the boys?

MrsMeeseeks · 03/01/2017 13:03

Yes, whyever not, Willow is fairly gender neutral, IMO. Go for it, OP.

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