Middles names issues

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Looking for some input before agonising over this for the next 4 months

Our middle name for a girl will be Frances but I'm unsure it goes with either my favourite name or DH. He thinks I'm over thinking it

So posted before I finished

So my favourite or my DH... he thinks I'm overthinking it and it goes with both, so names are as follows:

Florence Frances
Iris Frances

Maybe I'am, and do you ever use your middle names apart from official purposes.....

What are the favourite names?

Hmm im not sure to be honest, if i had to pick one I would go for Iris Frances.

I think Frances is a great name, as is Francesca. But that's not what you're asking. I like Florence better, but if your last name starts with an S I would probably go with Iris instead

I love Frances and it's a family name so means a lot, I would use it as a first name but I don't like Frankie for a girl so puts me off.

Surname is to me a very masculine sounding name so no s sounding syllables.

I love Ivy and think it fits perfectly with Frances but DH has used his veto