I think I'm finally getting a shortlist, however I'm now onto middle names and due to our surname we could end up spelling words in the initials. So, tell me what you think of these initial possibilities please:
Girl
L.A.M.D
L.G.A.D/L.A.G.D
L.C.D
L.A.D
Boy
L.M.E.D/L.E.M.D
R.M.E.D/R.E.M.D
Possibly overthinking this, but FIL's initials spell a word and he hates it, so very conscious of it!