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Rufus, Ralph or Rupert?

57 replies

Shropitlikeitshot · 29/09/2016 22:35

Those are my three favourites if it's a boy (due Weds).

Would you mind picking your favourite of the three please?

And incase I've missed the perfect girls name, perhaps offer a name that might suit me if I like the above?

Thank you.

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Shropitlikeitshot · 29/09/2016 22:35

They are all "R's" by coincidence btw.

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Ladybird333 · 29/09/2016 22:38

Ralph, closely followed by Rufus. I have a friend who has one of each! I would have been called Rupert had I been a boy!

Rosie
Alice
Martha
Matilda

Good luck!

Shropitlikeitshot · 29/09/2016 22:41

Thank you. I'm awaiting a barrage of abuse, so thank you for not slating them.

My current girls name of choice is Phillipa. Thoughts?

This baby will be a sibling for Henrietta.

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Ladybird333 · 29/09/2016 22:52

Ooh, I love Phillipa! Or is it Philippa?
Also
Scarlett
Jemima
Harriet

Shropitlikeitshot · 29/09/2016 22:54

And I love you. Had lots of negative feedback but you've made my night!

Think I prefer Rufus to Ralph. But don't want him to be a doofus. DH likes Wilf, so I just have him to convince.

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Optimist3 · 29/09/2016 22:58

Rufus or Ralph.

Optimist3 · 29/09/2016 22:59

Rafe is another similar name. Adore wilf also

weasle · 29/09/2016 22:59

All good but Rupert best to me.

Ladybird333 · 29/09/2016 23:00

Aw, bless you! Rufus is lovely too. My friend's Rufus doesn't get doofus but he's still pre-school. And of course there's the gorgeous Rufus Sewell we've just seen in Victoria! He definitely isn't a doofus!

DramaAlpaca · 29/09/2016 23:02

Of the three I like Rufus best, but I think Rupert goes best with Henrietta.

I also like Philippa (with that spelling).

katemess12 · 29/09/2016 23:13

Rupert.

Ralph is nice, but I will always picture Ralph Wiggum from The Simpsons when I hear it. And I don't like Rufus.

I like Wilf when short for Wilfred, but not as a stand alone name.

Sophronia · 29/09/2016 23:48

Rupert. I prefer Philippa spelled this way.

Usernamer · 30/09/2016 03:54

LOVE Rupert, not so keen on the other two boy options.

Philippa is nice too, do you plan to shorten it to something in particular?

sonlypuppyfat · 30/09/2016 04:00

Wilfred and Rupert oh they would have gone down a treat at my schoolHmm Rufus and Phillipa are lovely, all the best for the birth

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 30/09/2016 04:20

Love Rufus and Rupert.

And Philippa.

EuroCarpediem · 30/09/2016 04:42

We have a little Rupert in our extended family.

He is the sweetest toddler and it suits him. I have come to love the name.

AmeliaJack · 30/09/2016 04:50

Rufus is my favourite from your list

Philippa is beautiful.

CakeRattleandRoll · 30/09/2016 06:24

I like Rufus best.
Agree that Philippa is better spelling.

Shropitlikeitshot · 30/09/2016 07:07

Thanks gang.

Would it bother you having two daughters with feminine versions of masculine names?

I like Pip, Pippy or Philly as nn. Pippa I like but prefer the above. Just worry that Pip is a bit tomboyish.

I've gone off Ralph over night so Rufus or Rupert it is.

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acsec · 30/09/2016 07:09

I like Ralph but pronounced Rafe (like Ralph Fiennes). All nice names.

I too am due Weds!

Ohdofuckoffplease · 30/09/2016 07:09

Rufus over Rupert by miles for me! I only like Ralph if it's pronounced Rafe and people will always mispronounce it that way. Rufus is very cute. I love Roo for short.

Ohdofuckoffplease · 30/09/2016 07:10

Haha X-post!

Optimist3 · 30/09/2016 07:11

Rufus. The one I know isn't called dufus.

Not keen on Rupert. Too 'try hard' posh sorry.

girlandboy · 30/09/2016 07:17

I know a Rufus, who within days of his birth has been called Roo instead, which I think is a bit of a shame.

And yes he's also called Doof...short for Doofus.

can't see the point in naming him Rufus if no-one ever calls him it

Ohdofuckoffplease · 30/09/2016 07:18

OP, do you like Rafferty? It's a bit less stuffy than Rupert and has a nicer sound than Rufus I think.