Apologies for this. I've done threads before but dh wants to start again because we can't agree.
I thought we'd go back to basics and scrap all my criteria. We do agree we want a name that 'matches' but we don't even agree on the genre of dds name. I am set on two names in particular and thought he liked them too. I expanded my list and he says everything is too poncey and that Melissa is middle of the road so therefore we need something more basic. Do you know any Melissas? What are their brothers called and do you know middle names because we need help with that too.
Elcs on Monday by the way and I want a decision by the weekend. I know I have time but I don't like the idea of him not having a name and I'm worried we're going to end up arguing while I'm in recovery!