Options needed

[Reiltin]

We're having a boy
I've posted before to get feedback on Nathaniel, which was a resounding yes and is top of our list, but we're not convinced. We also like:
Jasper (though I'm not sure about it)
Elijah
Sebastian (but we think it's a bit gay for a kid with two moms!)
Matthew (too popular)
Alexander (not unusual enough for me)

We need more options. We want something known but not common. Our dd is H a r r i e t and we're in ireland so it fits the profile.

All suggestions welcome

Alastair
Theodore
Caspar
Reuben

Love Jasper.

What about Ethan?

Bartholomew?

Samuel?

Jared
Benedict
Hugo

Sebastian is beautiful. Strong classic interesting and different in a nice way. Love the nn Seb as well.
I don't really like any of your other names. Nothing wrong with them. Just not to my taste.

Conrad - known but not common, and sounds good with Harriet to me.

Is Matthew really that popular?? I still like Nathaniel best out of your list.

Call it Rasputin

Like Elijah and Sebastian from your list best. I think Sebastian sounds quite manly!! Most of my list for DS has been mentioned already but names we're considering (I like your list generaly so maybe we have similar taste!):
Conrad
Miles
Reuben
Caspar
Theo nn Ted
Hugo (although I'm Irish too and although we live in the UK I'm worried it sounds too posh for Irish tastes!)