I'm expecting DC3 and DH (as with the last two) is refusing to discuss names with me until a couple of weeks prior to the birth 
So I'd be very grateful if you lot could help me get my shortlist together so I can pound him with it closer to the time 
I currently have an Oscar Matthew and a James Douglas - don't know if DC3 is a boy or a girl.
Current favourites are:
Boys:
Rafferty (nn Raffy) - I love love love this.
Toby
Jonty - not Jonathan or John, just Jonty - can I do that?
Benjamin (nn Benji)
Jack
Henry - not mad keen but seems to go well with Oscar and James
Girls:
Sadie - I love this - it also has the same meaning as my name which is quite nice
Tabitha (nn Tabby)
Sophie
Emily
Mary
Girls middle names likely to be Alice and Eva (family names) - doesn't matter which order. Not sure on boys middle name.
I'm not mad on any of them except Rafferty (which I suspect I won't get past DH) and Sadie so any similar suggestions gratefully received.