My husband and I are pretty decided on the name 'Ben' - we aren't so keen on 'Benjamin', so it'll be just 'Ben'. Our problem is in finding a middle name we both like and that goes with Ben. Initials are important too - no B.S. or B.O. or B.J. We're stuck, so now I'm asking strangers! - what do you think?
Ben Adam or Ben Ian? Any negative associations with either in how they blend together etc?
Any other suggestions?
Help is appreciated!