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only 8 days to go - Connor or Conrad??

58 replies

KMR281 · 21/12/2012 10:16

due Dec 29th, have 2 boys already (Christian and Samuel). Picked out 2 girls names that we like (Merryn or Meredith) and are a bit stuck for boys names - have William, but suddenly thinking of Connor or Conrad? What do you think?? Is Conrad a bit 1920s communist comrade?! Connor was in top 25 boys names last year, Conrad doesn't feature, but yet is easy to spell etc.
Impartial advice required! TIA.

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SquealyB · 21/12/2012 11:03

We had selected Conor (original irish sp) as possible name for DC1 expected in Jan. Although I love the name I got cold feet in the last couple of weeks and changed our mind as it does seem to be very popular and the last few weeks I have seen a fair few chavvy parents out screaming "Conor don't touch that" etc in the supermarket. Have to confess it put me right off!

I think Conrad is a pretty cool alternative and I have to say I prefer it to William.

almapudden · 21/12/2012 11:09

Conrad. Connor is overused and a bit chavvy.

lidlqueen · 21/12/2012 11:10

Conrad, ditto alma

PersonalClown · 21/12/2012 11:12

Oi You cheeky bunch of vipers!! I have a Connor.

It was a compromise with the traditional Irish GPs. They wanted Seamus, I wanted Caleb.
If I knew his fucker of a father was going to disappear by the time my Toad was 1, I'd have had my choice

SquealyB · 21/12/2012 11:16

Clown I LOVE the name Conor hence why it was our number one boys choice and it is popular for a reason. So it is a shame that some people are dragging it down!

baskingseals · 21/12/2012 12:29

Conrad is very cool. i would choose Conrad.

GinSoakedMulberryBush · 21/12/2012 13:25

Conor is not chavy. It is a legend name for goodness sake. There are other cultures besides The British culture of kings, queens etc.

Conrad is not as classic. Bit smug perhaps. But I like it.

SquealyB · 21/12/2012 13:36

Gin I don't think anyone was denigrating any other culture here, even though a name may have specific culture background and history modern connotations and perceptions are an equally valid consideration.

ShowOfHands · 21/12/2012 13:40

William by a country mile. I do know a lovely Konrad though (not English). I know a Conner and a Connor in the same class and both are very spirited. Grin Just prefer William.

GinSoakedMulberryBush · 21/12/2012 13:42

People don't realise that's what they're doing, but there is a train of thought in the UK that any Irish name is a chav choice. And perhaps if that is how it is perceived then what is the difference? It's like James or Jack or Michael here.

MunchkinsMumof2 · 21/12/2012 14:32

Conrad

SquealyB · 21/12/2012 14:46

Gin I hope not a we have Irish names picked for our DC Xmas Wink. There are lots of English names that I would never used because in IMO they are too chavvy/posh/out there. I think it can apply regardless of the cultural background (for example see the thread on the name Ruby). Plus it is a good thing we don't all like the same names or life would be terribly confusing!

AgathaTrunchbull · 21/12/2012 16:36

We've got Conrad picked out for if we ever have a boy. He'll be a tiny, icky bit German. It means something like 'wise counsel'. Connor's just a bit commonly used for my taste.

babyblabber · 21/12/2012 16:42

Conor. Gorgeous name, that's why it's popular. Hate the spelling with 2 Ns though, looks like a wrong Americanized version.

flowerygirl · 21/12/2012 17:47

I think Conrad is more masculine, I would choose it over Conor!

MamaMary · 21/12/2012 17:48

Conor

KMR281 · 21/12/2012 17:53

ta for the comments! Seems Connor (or Conor) is more popular than Conrad, just. I guess we'd prob shorten either to Con. Kind of like the wild irish feel of Connor, and Conrad feels a bit more buttoned-up, but then, I am mega-preggers, so bit bonkers just now!
oh, and ShowofHands - William would be middle name if we go for Connor/Conrad, as was my paternal grandfather's name, as well as being rather classically nice!

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toomuch2young · 21/12/2012 17:55

Conor.
Good Irish name.
Good luck Xmas Grin

bigbluebump · 21/12/2012 18:51

Conrad is much nicer and more interesting than Conor!

Are you sure you want to shorten to Con Hmm?

mayanna234 · 21/12/2012 18:54

"Conrad. Connor is overused and a bit chavvy. "

I agree with that. Conrad is a great name!

mayanna234 · 21/12/2012 18:55

And Conrad is nicer than William imo (which may well get teased with Willy).

HappyAsASandboy · 21/12/2012 19:17

I would stick with William as I think it's the nicest (by a long way). I would also rather avoid two of three boys having the same initial.

LaTrucha · 21/12/2012 19:18

What about Cory?

jellybeans · 21/12/2012 19:22

Connor for sure

fruityxmasAbuHamzamouse · 21/12/2012 19:27

I love the name Connor.

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