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Would these initials bother you?

28 replies

glitzalicious · 28/10/2012 04:02

DS2 is due any day and we can't agree on a name. Both keen on Leo Alexander but that would give the wee man the initials 'LAP', which DH thinks will result in teasing. DS1 is Oscar, initials OSP. Can't have any MNs that end in 'Y' as our last name does, too.

Other options:
Leo Maximillion (initials LMP - makes me think of Last Menstrual Period!!)
Milo Alexander (MAP)
Leo Alastair (same problem as above!)
Leo Benjamin (DH not very keen on Benjamin)

I'm full term now so any input appreciated!

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FaffTastic · 28/10/2012 04:10

I really don't think anyone that your son grows up with would get the connection between LMP and last menstrual blood. Seriously. Would never have occurred to me.

I kind of agree re LAP. What about Milo Maxmilian together - MMP.

DontLikeChocolate · 28/10/2012 04:10

That would bother me, too, but then I have a tendency to over think things when it comes to names. How about 'Leo Dominic'?

chaosandcupcakes · 28/10/2012 04:12

Leo Alexander is lovely. I really don't think LAP are bad initials at all and not really much to tease about. And I'm a teacher who has heard and seen more teasing than most. Honestly don't think you should worry about it. MAP is more tease worthy but it's not rude or anything!!

SchmancyPants · 28/10/2012 04:13

I wouldn't worry. Leo Alexander is lovely. There won't be a problem with teasing because a) most people won't even know his middle name and b) LAP isn't a tease-worthy word anyway- it's not as if you were planning to name him Charles Richard Alexander! Grin

FaffTastic · 28/10/2012 04:16

The only teasing that I can think of that could originate from LAP would be lap dog. But I honestly don't think children even think about middle names when they are at school and his classmates probably wouldn't put the connection together.

glitzalicious · 28/10/2012 04:27

I should have added that another option is Leo Raphael, initials LRP... DH hasn't vetoed but thinks Raphael is on the 'poncey' side [hconfused]

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worm77daisy · 28/10/2012 04:34

My mum has the initials LMP and I had never considered it as an abbreviation for anything else before.

FaffTastic · 28/10/2012 04:38

Agree with your DH that Rapheal is overly pretentious which is presumably what he meant by pouncey Grin

nooka · 28/10/2012 06:09

Why are you thinking that LAP (well LAPY) is an issue? I can't see anything tease worthy in that. Why is your DH so concerned, what implications does he think those letters have? LMP might become 'limp' I suppose, but really unless your initially are something like BJ I don't think that in general people really notice them very much.

Ham69 · 28/10/2012 15:13

I love Milo Alexander.
I think you're over analysing the initials. If they spelt something rude then fair enough, but LAP or MAP? Don't worry!

roastdinner · 28/10/2012 18:04

I guess nobody sees lap dancer in there then! Seriously though, it's really a trivial issue at the end of the day and I doubt your child will suffer at the hands of bullies coz his initials are LAP. They're more likely to pick on poor Atticus.

PickledFanjoCat · 28/10/2012 18:04

Aw lovely names but that's some serious overthinkage!!!

CailinDana · 28/10/2012 18:06

Do children really tease about initials?

PickledFanjoCat · 28/10/2012 19:31

Yes, my cousin got teased over RAT.

But LMP? Er, unlikely!

RillaBlythe · 28/10/2012 20:42

Really? I had a boyfriend whose initials were JAB, that seems similar to LAP to me. I don't think anyone ever commented on it.

DP's initials are THC, nobody ever comments on that either.

Yika · 28/10/2012 20:45

You're over thinking it. Leo Alexander is lovely.

alpinefresh · 28/10/2012 20:47

my dh's initials are PMT. Even has a private numberplate that is proudly displayed on his car!

Its not the inititals that are the problem its the way the person owning them reacts to them

cashmerewebsandspidersheads · 28/10/2012 20:51

Don't think it matters. My initials spell an inoffensive word too and no-one ever mentioned it.

FrightRunScream · 28/10/2012 20:55

They are all fine, although I agree that Raphael is poncey.

PickledFanjoCat · 28/10/2012 20:56

Leo Alexander is lovely.

Kittykatmacbill · 28/10/2012 20:59

If you are really worried he could always be Alexander Leo - then he would ALP, which is kinda cool IMO.

MoelFammau · 28/10/2012 21:11

My DD is RDCK, which I've never written down until just now. She's RK to everyone. Would anyone really know what the full initials are?

LittlePandaBear · 28/10/2012 21:48

I love the name Leo Alexander, but if the initials bother you, could you add in a second middle name too?

Alisvolatpropiis · 28/10/2012 22:55

No problem with it I can see. Initials that spell ass are the ones that prove problematic.

The name you've got in mind is so handsome!

forevergreek · 29/10/2012 11:59

I wouldn't worry. But if you are what about Leo Xander? Then it's lxp