We are trying to think of a middle name for Ben. We did have Ben Jacob (Jacob is a family name) but we now can't get the BJ issue out of our heads! We were not worried about what others thought but now both of us just think
BJ and can't get it out of our thoughts. We like the idea of middle name being something from the family. Our trouble is the majority begin with J!
We now have Ben Louis (Louise is a family name).
Any other ideas?