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Bernadette

63 replies

barbalala · 27/11/2011 14:18

DP put this name forward for our next DD. He's foreign (non-English speaking country) and had a close family member with this name. Not sure how to react to his name choice Hmm.
I personally don't think we would do the LO a favour if we named her Bernadette...
Also, can't think of suitable nicknames other than Bernie, which I don't find particularly cute.
Please help, (how) should I persuade DH to drop it?

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nooka · 28/11/2011 01:14

I don't think Bernadette is too bad, although I too would expect an Irish Catholic connection. Betty would be totally acceptable, even mainstream in the UK. Mostly as a nn of Elisabeth, but also I suspect growing as a name in it's own right. I can't imagine a Bernadette usually called Betty (or Betsy) would have any problems at all. Personally I think it 'goes' perfectly well with your other children, and I wouldn't tag it as pretentious at all, because it's not a name I associate with the upper classes or particularly showy IYKWIM. Lourdes on the other hand is a celebrity wannabe name to me.

However if you don't like it surely that is good enough for a reason not to use it? Can't you just say 'sorry dh, I just don't like it for soon to be dd'?

nooka · 28/11/2011 01:35

I'm not sure why you feel that you can't have a long first name if you opt to use Bernadette as a middle name. Both me and my cousin have long first names and long second names (I have 3, 3, 1 and then a single syllable surname, she has 5, 4 and a four syllable surname) I don't think it's ever been an issue. From a list of longer Hungarian names that are also used in the UK:

Alexandra Bernadette
Anastasia Bernadette
Andrea Bernadette
Barbara Bernadette
Cecilia Bernadette
Diana Bernadette
Edina Bernadette
Elisabeth Bernadette
Erika Bernadette
Francisca Bernadette
Helena Bernadette
Isabella Bernadette
Julia Bernadette
Katerina Bernadette
Marianna Bernadette
Natalia Bernadette
Olga Bernadette
Susanna Bernadette
Theodora Bernadette

I think that all these work (depending on your surname of course) but you still should be able to tell your dh if you really don't want to use it at all.

mopsyflopsy · 28/11/2011 09:35

I think Bernadette makes a refreshing change from all the little Evies, Ellies, Lilys etc. Lots of lovely nickname potential - Bernie, Ettie etc and, as others have said, works in most languages.

JumpJockey · 28/11/2011 09:42

How about Beata instead of Bernadette? It has a similar feel. Though it might sound a bit too 'forrin' to some ears.

sandyballs · 28/11/2011 09:49

I love it but I'm biased

Smiller10 · 19/12/2011 17:51

I chose Bernadette as my confirmation name when I was 8. I'm indifferent to it to be honest; I don't use it often as it's not a legal name (and I already have 2 'official' middle names - add that to a 7 letter first name; my parents clearly wanted to challenge me). I think I would have liked Ettie or Dettie as a nn.

I chose it because I thought there were only 3 female saints (I was only 8!) and my other middle names covered the other 2 (Catherine and Marie/Mary). I loved the story of St Bernadette at Lourdes and also the Song of Bernadette sung by Jennifer Warnes. I also rather like that it means 'Courage of a Bear' Smile

All in all, I'm happy with my choice though I sometimes wonder what I would have chosen if I was let loose on the whole book of female saints names.

stleger · 19/12/2011 18:16

Dh's primary school 'head nun' was Sister Bernardina. I know a nice mid twenties Bernadette (Bernie);apart from that I'd say 70 year old Irish lady. I'm in Cork, it isn't used here (Alison and Gillian are teenage names in Cork).

HereKittyKitty · 21/12/2011 20:25

I think it's lovely and a refreshing change.

As a Catholic, I wouldn't make the assumption that a Bernadette was a Catholic. It would never occur to me. To be honest I can't think of any names that would cause me to make an assumption about anyone's religious background in this day and age. Confused

Miette · 21/12/2011 23:38

What about one of these from the 2009 Hungarian baby name list?

Jázmin
Anna
Hanna
Nóra
Boglárka
,Réka
Lili

Viktória
Zsófia
Petra
Dóra
Laura
Eszter
Vivien
Noémi
Dorina(582, 101) -1
Fanni(579, 93) -1
Csenge(578, 145) -1
Emma(577, 117) +3
Lilla(561, 167) -2
Gréta(555, 112)

Sára(466, 336) +2
Rebeka(444, 133) +3
Bianka(435, 127) -1
Virág(412, 200) +2
Alexandra(385, 91) -6
Kitti(385, 91) +6
Panna(369, 110) +3
Flóra(361, 115) -4
6 Regina(357, 75)

Tímea(347, 94) -2
) Fruzsina(332, 60) -4
Ramóna(329, 76) +11
Kata(325, 144) +2
Nikolett(311, 68) -2
Maja(309, 46) +15
Zoé(308, 146) +6
Liliána(307, 55) -3
Barbara(305, 118) -5
Emese(297, 59) -1
Dorka(294, 61) -4
Tamara(285, 67) +14
Kinga(284, 62) -3
Vanessza(278, 79) +9
Lara(277, 57) -1
Léna(263, 57) +14
Szonja(254, 65) +11
Amanda(249, 68) -6
Enikő(249, 38) -4
Blanka(248, 58) -9
Vanda(234, 81) -13
Kamilla(231, 73) -5
Veronika(228, 95) +4
Kiara(224, 81) +17
Júlia(206, 95) -6
Adrienn(206, 29) -1
Dzsenifer(202, 54) -6
Janka(200, 36) -3
Dorottya(196, 38) -9
Lilien(187, 24) +6
Mira(186, 40) +24
Liza(184, 28) +2
Krisztina(180, 136) -15
Zita(174, 49) +7
Dalma(171, 42) +25
Borbála(170, 82) +10
Míra(170, 27) -3
Natália(165, 33) +14
Izabella(163, 64) +11
Leila(162, 58) +27
Melissza(158, 45) +4
Adél(156, 16) -12
Zsanett(154, 34) +7
Emília(152, 39) +7
Kincső(152, 37) -4
Kira(149, 54) -7
Gabriella(147, 80) new
Cintia(147, 39) -19
Alexa(146, 44) -3
Katalin(145, 183) -13
Diána(141, 63) +9
2 Patrícia(141, 44) -16
Evelin(141, 36) -17
Hanga(140, 31) new
Melinda(136, 54) +11
Johanna(136, 44) +6
Orsolya(136, 42) -15
Brigitta(127, 39) -7
Anita(126, 59) +9
Amira(123, 31) -5
Klaudia(122, 41) -4
Nikoletta(122, 34) -14
Zsuzsanna(121,124)new
Kíra(121, 53) -25
3 Szófia(121, 42) new
Ágnes(120, 75) -1
Mercédesz(120, 58) -10
Renáta(119, 41) -20

PercyFilth · 22/12/2011 02:10

Some of those are not, shall we say, advisable for use in the UK. Hmm

sashh · 22/12/2011 03:51

I quite like it, but it does make me think RC - second only to Philomena as Irish RC

tryingtoleave · 22/12/2011 03:59

I really like it. I know a couple (in Australia) and, yes, they are rc.

mathanxiety · 22/12/2011 16:17

PollyMorphic, I agree with your thoughts here.

Barbalala - It really doesn't matter if your DH doesn't have any association other than the French saint -- it's what others associate the name with that sort of counts more and I think Bernadette Devlin has scuppered Bernadette.

There are lots of lovely Hungarian names and also the international Marie/Maria, etc., if he is thinking of some marian connection. Or how about Regine, Consuela, Stella Maris..

Beata is fab imo.

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