Little secret - my favourite baby girl's name for years upon years was Phoebe (all to do with me studying Greek mythology and the Titans in year 11 - some 19 years ago!). I always assumed that that would be the name I would use regardless of popularity etc. Anyway, to cut a long story short, a friend used it. Then a family member. Sucks to be me, right? I know a lot of people think that I could still use it, but I just wouldn't. Because I know how I would have felt had I had DD first and named her Phoebe, only to have family member and friend do the same... it turns out if the boot was on the other foot, I would be v selfish about it.
My back up name was Beatrix, which I have secretly kept as back up for probably 5 years. Isabel I have always loved too, but that is so popular (as mentioned in post above). Anyway, since my absolute fave name has been used, I was having a wobble about Beatrix. I do love, love it.
I especially love the meaning - Bringer of Joy. I have been diagnosed with Uterus Didelphys and am unsure whether or not I will have my own baby (going to the UCLH in November to find out if I need surgery and what my chances of conception are). So feel that this name is apt, for a much longed for, wanted child. But then I really like other names too. Plus you get the added pressure that my mum hates the name. Not that we have ever got on particularly well, but she would be the sort to assume that I had named baby that to 'spite her'. Honestly, she is unreal!
Anyway, enough of all that. Sorry for the super long post/therapy session!
I am pleased we have lots of support for Beatrix :)