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Antenatal support thread for women who have chosen to terminate VI

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mmetracyt · 07/06/2010 10:42

Hello, this is the start of thread 6.

This is a thread for all of the lovely women who are going through the difficult process of bad news to acceptance.

The idea is it's a place to go when your friends, family and partners know what you're going to say, but you want to say it all again. Or it's somewhere where you can reveal the most devastating, bleak thoughts to people who will understand. It's a comforting, friendly place to go when your view of your own life, and your most cherished plans are suddenly shattered, and it's a place where your grief will be somehow lightened by the stories of people you've never even met.

The journey's not linear, you can move forward to a week only to find yourself seemingly back at the beginning but you're not really, you are getting through it, the days are getting imperceptibly lighter. It's not about forgetting it's about remembering without too much pain.

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Coffeeandchocolate · 07/06/2010 11:31

MMT, your post is so lovely... I wish you were around yesterday, because I started the sixth thread and there are already several posts in there. Could you maybe copy and paste your words in there and delete this one, as it would be confusing to have 2 threads with the same title?

mmetracyt · 07/06/2010 11:52

Coffee, can't delete, however will declare this thread ended and anyone who finds themselves here should hop over to the other thread. Will post link when I can find it. Hope you're ok, xx

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