Morning everyone. A few months ago I suffered an ectopic pregnancy and had my right tube removed after a rupture. When I found out I was pregnant again (LMP 7 May) the hospital booked me for an early scan at 7 weeks. They found one baby at 3.3mm with a heartbeat and one possible baby at 2.8 but no Hb. They said I was more like 5 weeks.
They booked another scan for 8+1 and yesterday they found baby #1 at 5.3 with a strong heartbeat so it looks like they are at 6 weeks and developing normally, if quite a bit behind my expected dates. Baby #2 however is only 4mm and still no heart beat.
I know about vanishing twin syndrome and was trying to be prepared but I also don't want to "give up" on baby #2 because I feel like I'm betraying them. Can anyone offer any advice on managing expectations. My next scan is in 9 days (technically 9+4 but probably 7+4 for baby 1) and I might go insane waiting!