My DS was born with a heart defect that had to be surgically corrected at 3 wks. I'm pg and the mw said I need extra scans to check this baby's development. I called and talked to another mw and she said the scans won't be until after my 12 wk scan. Does this seem right? Does anyone else have any experience with this? I'm considering getting a private scan because I have momentary freak outs that there is something wrong. Would they be able to check the heart?