Last week I walked into the nurse's office in my local GP practice. I had brought my son in with me and the second I stepped foot into the room she exclaimed "gosh he's young, how old is he?" I answered saying he was 18 months, she immediately looked shocked and said "what?! And your having another?" I was taken aback. I planned to have my children close in age, and number 2 is due a month after number 1 turns two, and I thought it was common to have kids a couple of years apart (each to their own of course) but she kept on saying that I'm going to have my work cut out and it's going to be really hard.